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Randahl posted an update in the group Genderstraddlers 12 years, 4 months ago

So my area had our Pride festival yesterday, which started at 6:45 am and did not end until 4:00 am this morning. It was pretty awesome, but I had one problem. I had a LOT of gay guys hit on me!! [I’m a girl, and didn’t think I was THAT androgynous looking until last night] My feelings are mixed, somewhere in between being flattered and really…[Read more]

Dany replied 12 years, 4 months ago

I had a 40 year old gay man hit on me at a gay bar recently. At first I was a bit flattered, then he became super creepy and kept sending his friends over to talk to me. Apparently my voice did not give me away and he became more of a creeper until my friend posed as my boyfriend.
- Randahl replied 12 years, 4 months ago
  
  Oh I’m glad it’s not just me. LOL on having your friend pose…was said friend a girl or a guy [or other]?
  Because two girls pretending to be gay boyfriends tickles me for some reason :P I think I just get a kick out of gender bending.
  - Dany replied 12 years, 4 months ago
    
    Well, he’s a transman and I guess I was being perceived as male, so we were seen as a gay couple? Who knows though, gender is confusing!
    - Randahl replied 12 years, 4 months ago
      
      Gender IS confusing! I find I do best when I don’t try to label myself too specifically or think about it too much…which I should/am trying to do at the moment lol.
christine replied 12 years, 2 months ago

Haha, I’ve run into this a couple times too. Wandering around the gay village in Toronto when I had just recently moved into the area, I found myself being checked out by gay men when I walked by. It was a little unsettling haha. But I think that was arguably more tolerable than this weekend when I got hit on by a high school freshman girl……[Read more]

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