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CJ posted an update in the group Femme Straddlers 9 years ago

I guess this is as good of a place as any to ask for advice. I recently started seeing this girl and things have been amazing. Like, in that stage of can’t stay away from each other, can’t stop touch each other and well, we tend to procrastinate because we spend a lot of time up late in the bedroom. haha. This is all great, and I am totally…[Read more]

Shu Uemura Eyeliner replied 9 years ago

Hi CJ! First, I’m happy you two found each other and 2, I also have a hard time getting to that point sometimes. But I found out wine and toys help relax me and get me there. Therefore, maybe try a BPA-free, phthalate-free toy or some libations beforehand? Hope this helps! :)
- CJ replied 9 years ago
  
  Thanks so much for the advice! It is so easy to think that you should just be able to come all the same, that we often forget that we all have different bodies, and that it isn’t even all about getting off. Will def. take your advice :)
  - Shu Uemura Eyeliner replied 9 years ago
    
    No problem! and best wishes! :)
Jasmine replied 8 years, 12 months ago

Also, don’t be hesitant to communicate during the act, and tell her what feels good or direct her etc; patience is a virtue! ;)

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