Ok I don’t know if this actually makes sense, but bear with me.

I went back to OkCupid after getting myself back in a place where I felt like dating again. They changed some stuff but I’m not sure the changes are an improvement. One can actually identify as trans and maybe two dozen other labels and people can use the search function to find us, right? The thing is, it doesn’t work in reverse. So while I can now be easily found I still cannot identify someone there who would potentially be interested in dating a transgender woman. It’s weird.