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pluraliser posted an update in the group
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‘Sup, y’allfags. I just recently had my first kiss with this lovely lady I’ve been seeing for a couple of months, we were friends for months before that, and we’re one of those annoying adorable infatuated couples. But the kiss just felt like…. touching, but with mouths? Nice, sure, but no different from holding hands or whatever. If kisses…[Read more]
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AG posted an update in the group
Underage Straddlers (in lieu of an inevitably more creative name) 12 years, 2 months ago
Anyone else forget about Pride? Whoooops.
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isa posted an update in the group
Straddler-on-Straddler advice 12 years, 2 months ago
Okay. I will make this short because it is the classic “I’m-in-love-with-my-straight-best-friend” scenario. Basically, I am in love with my straight best friend. What the fuck do I do? (I am not out)…(& she has had numerous sexual encounters with girls but I am almost positive that her romantic feelings are strictly for boys).
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what do you want? Do you want to come out to her? Have a sexual encounter with her? Or try and forget about her?
I think the advice stems on what you want or what you think is even a possibility/how she or others may react.
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Maybe you can use your friend status to get a bit more insight into where she’s at in terms of her sexuality? Find out whether she’s romantically attracted to women or not, because if she’s not, there’s sadly not very much you can do to change that.
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Oh, honey. I think just about all of us have been there at one time or another. There’s never a really satisfying answer to this predicament. I agree with Cindy and Dizzy both. You should figure out exactly what it is you want from her. It sounds like she might be open to a fling. Would that be worth it? Some people can handle one night…[Read more]
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Becca posted an update in the group
Underage Straddlers (in lieu of an inevitably more creative name) 12 years, 2 months ago
Helloooo all! I’m not exactly new to Autostraddle, but I finally signed up (took me long enough). Anyone here from around the Bay Area, specifically the south peninsula? I’m mostly just looking for people to talk to and whatnot. I figured this might be a good place to start? :)
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Rie posted an update in the group
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Straddlers: There’s a cool local event involving a lot of semifamous authors getting into performance shenanigans. I’d like to ask a girl I met while volunteering to join me, but I don’t wanna be a creeper. What’s the best way of doing this?
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what kind of contact info do you have for her?
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Only Facebook
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Well it sounds like there’s a low chance of being a creeper here… if you’re on good conversational terms just leave a post on her fb asking if she’d like to join you. If you haven’t really talked I’d message her saying something like “Hey, we haven’t talked much but you seem cool… would you like to go to this with me?”
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I’d try chat if you’re both online, otherwise a PM sounds good. I think the best way to think is what would you do/how would you react in her shoes :)
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Awww, thanks! I sent her a facebook message earlier this week, and she was very kind but had to say no cause she had a friend visiting.
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Allie posted an update in the group
Underage Straddlers (in lieu of an inevitably more creative name) 12 years, 2 months ago
anyone here in Michigan (specifically southwest Michigan)? our GSA is trying to organize some queer summer picnic/possibly beach fun and we can always use more cool queer kids.
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LaurenLu posted an update in the group
Underage Straddlers (in lieu of an inevitably more creative name) 12 years, 2 months ago
Let’s all have a sing along. Someone pick their favourite (hopefully wellishly-known) happy song and we can just sing out problems away.
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Yes. But more off-key and Disney themed.
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The seaweed is always greener in somebody else’s lake. You dream about going up there, but that is a big mistake! Just look at the world around you, right here on the ocean floor! Such wonderful things surround you, what more are you looking for? :D
(I love the little mermaid)
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Under the sea
(Under the sea)
Darling it’s better
Down where it’s wetter
Take it from me
Up on the shore they work all day
Out in the sun they slave away
While we devotin’
Full time to floatin’
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By the way, @Kierious, you have a rather fantastic taste in music/books. I don’t think I know a single person who’s even heard of the Dresden Dolls.
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You’re kidding! I used to listen to them all the time.
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Unfortunately not, nobody here knows of them. I saw Amanda Palmer live a while back, and had nobody to rave to about it because no one knew who she was.
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hi i saw this and had to reply. I LOVE AMANDA PALMER. i literally just got a book of her sheet music for christmas and spent most of last evening trying to learn blake says on the piano.
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THE DRESDEN DOLLS
AMANDA PALMER
YOU ARE MY PEOPLE
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