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Straddler-on-Straddler advice 12 years, 1 month ago
So I’m pretty femme, and I’m attracted to feminine women. The problem tends to be that I can’t tell when they’re gay, and vice versa. I wear a rainbow lanyard bracelet, but that doesn’t seem to do anything. Any advice for gaydar or gaying yourself?
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I’m the same, I usually tend to just talk to them and gague their reaction I mean if they are flirty or have lots of eye contact then you know where you stand, I don’t wear anything rainbow and it’s not a problem for me. Sooner or later they might say something about having a boyfriend or something then you know, then it’s cool to make a new…[Read more]
I don’t have any advice off hand myself, except that’s what the current post on effing dykes is about:http://effingdykes.blogspot.com/2011/09/watching-that-girlish-figure.html
maybe you’ll find something useful there, or in the comments on it?
I also wrote about this on my blog! Check it out, I hope it’s helpful! :-) http://hotfemmeinthecity.wordpress.com/2011/08/23/femme-on-femme-invisibility/
That was an amazing blog that caused happy images to materialize in my prefrontal cortex.
Thanks! I’m so glad you liked it :-)