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Straddler-on-Straddler advice 12 years ago
So, I want to be out to my floormates/roommate especially, but I’m not quite sure how to have the “I’m not out to my family, so don’t say anything to them” conversation. Is it fair to come out to my roommate and then ask her to keep it quiet?
I think I may just be paranoid; she doesn’t ever talk to my family, but they might visit this winter. I…[Read more] -
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Straddler-on-Straddler advice 12 years ago
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AutoLaw 12 years ago
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If you’re living in a city where it’s pretty much accepted and she seems like a good friend I’d say go for it, I mean logically if she’s nice she’s not going to care or mind.
I would just say exactly what you just said. Don’t be dramatic about it, just “BTW my family might visit this winter. Please don’t mention the gay thing to them. Haha!” As long as she’s a nice girl, she will respect that it’s up to you to decide when your parents find out and not up to her.