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RachelL posted an update in the group
Futch Straddlers 12 years, 3 months ago
I feel like i have to live by some kind of standards in being a butch or femme. just sayin.
RachelL posted an update in the group 
I feel like i have to live by some kind of standards in being a butch or femme. just sayin.
yeah i get you. i feel like as long as i continue being in limbo i won’t attract any sort of girls whatsoever. which is a depressing thought.
I do not know anyone who has point this out, but this is such a good point. The femmes are like shmexi with their pumps and short skirts and the butches are like radiating homogayness. I on the other have to wear a rainbow button.
hahah exactly! nobody knows i am bi unless i tell them. which is good for hiding it from my parents but bad for the queer dating scene.
Like what they all say, You can’t get out till you’re out! I also hide it from my parents (conservative christians! word). They think I’m just turning into a typical ultra feminist. As long as I don’t say the L word, have a big confrontation about it or bring a girl home. It’s just gonna be to a point where it’s so obvious that I’m gay, but they’re just going to pretend to have a blind eye on it.
holy shit i think we have the exact same life!! gotta love conservative christian parents. the only way mine are ever knowing is if i’m considering a civil union/marriage.
It’s going to be like when 15 years later, I’m gonna call my mom and like “Hey mom! I’m engaged!” and then her name’s gonna be like Pat or something and then my parents are gonna think “Aww Patrick! What a lovely name!” and then when we show up at the doorstep, “Hi mom! Meet my fiance, Patricia!” de lulz. I’m actually not gonna do that since I really want to be out there and be involved in some serious activism and GLBTQ media stuff. So, probably when I’m off their financial chains.
My parents were like that, so I never “came out” I just started bringing girls home.
and then right before my dad died, we were watching food network and cat cora was on and he said “so, cat cora’s a lesbian too” and I said “yup” and he said “cool, just makin sure” and that was that. wasn’t nearly as scary as i thought it would be.
so i guess people can suprise you/sometimes you’re obvious. and I thought i was being sneaky….
aww that’s sweet. I kept wishing my parents would surprise me but they’re just so predictable.
wow. i can’t imagine such acceptance from my family. i casually dropped the fact that i didn’t think homosexuality was a sin and we all got into a heated argument in which only one out of six family members (my lil sis) was on my side. woot.
haha… I’m already turning my younger brothers into the “dark” side. I constantly scold them for saying “that’s so gay!”.
woof. it get’s better? idk my whole life my parents were so anti gay, they constantly talked shit about homo’s and how we’re going to hell and my dad did that whole “well, if they weren’t so OBVIOUS” thing (along with the “i just don’t want them hitting on me” which i once got grounded for replying “they wouldn’t, gays have taste”) that always pissed me off. i think they just mellowed out once i joined the army. like, that was the happiest i could make them, grandchildren didn’t matter anymore. lol maybe try that?