(((hugs)))
Good for you for taking responsibility for your own actions, but it’s important to remember that taking responsibility is not the same as beating yourself up over something. It’s easier said than done, but try to be kind to yourself! If whatever is going on is serious enough that you’re seeing a counselor for it, then you might want…[Read more]

I’ve had a conversation about this with my friends, and I decided that “humansexual” is possibly the best term and should become a new thing.

Yeah, the reason I didn’t come out as bi in high school, even though I went to a mostly queer-positive high school, is most of the girls who called themselves bisexuals were seen as “sluts” – and I didn’t want to be like them in any sense. (This was before I was enlightened to the concept of “slut-shaming” etc.)

Also, heterosexuality was still…[Read more]