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Straddlers on Coming Out 10 years, 10 months ago
I’m so lost on coming out. I feel like I am trapped. I only have one gay family member and its my great aunt. I don’t know who to come out to and when… HELP! :<
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Never had a girlfriend 10 years, 10 months agoPretty much on the same boat here. First girl I liked was my best friend, but she ended up going out with another girl that she hadn’t even known for a year. After all the crap that happened to her inflicted by her girlfriend, she told me that she can’t see me in that manner- which I can understand in some ways. Second girl I liked was the same…[Read more]
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MLP Straddlers 10 years, 10 months ago
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I’m in the same boat. Don’t talk to anyone till you’re ready… at least that’s what every thing i read says. lol. I told my best friend the a couple weeks ago that im questioning. He took it really well. find some one you trust completely, that helps.
Alright, thank you so much for the advice.
Exactly. don’t panic, start out by telling your friends, and don’t worry about being the only gay in the family. I was too, and my family was very cool. How did they react to you aunt coming out? Also, if you are not getting married in a few weeks, then don’t hurry with telling them, unless you think your relationsship is being hurt by keeping it…[Read more]