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Just came out to my parents over the phone. I was scared shitless (almost literally, ya’ll) but managed to blurt out the classic, “Mom, Dad, I’m gay.” My Dad cried, and they both told me they loved me. I’m feeling about 5 million emotions, as are they, and I know it’s going to take quite a while for things to feel normal again. I’m frightened yet…[Read more]
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Fencestraddlers 8 years, 2 months agoHey so, some validation is needed: its totally normal to be in a committed relationship with a dude or whatever and just miss the female body right?
I know its fine but it kinda, at more vulnerable moments, makes me feel like a “greedy” bi trope, you know.Thoughts?
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Oh my god yes. I suspect that if I stay with my current dude long-term I will absolutely need to do some open or poly stuff at some point. I tend to think it’s because I’m way further to the lesbian end of the spectrum than the other end, but it’s probably totally justified even without that.
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That feels so good to hear! I feel like I’m drifting that way too. I just – ladies are so cool, and dudes are alright – I just happen to be in love with one :P
But with open stuff my worry all like the anti-bi rhetoric like oh “bi folk aren’t loyal” etc
Like all the things in Heather Hogans tv recap today – pertinent.
Plus do ladies even…[Read more]
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Yeah I don’t know about that one. There’s anti-bi thinking all over the place, so being open or poly can definitely be hard. Some people manage it, and manage to form communities where people are ok with it, but I sure haven’t had any luck with that yet…
> ladies are so cool, and dudes are alright – I just happen to be in love with one
I 100% f…[Read more]
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I think that’s totally fine! And I hear you about being closer to the lesbian end of the spectrum – I define myself as a misandrist who makes exceptions…
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Ha ha ha that is awesome :)
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i would just like to add my 2 cents to this convo…which is i agree with everything that was already said.
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