-
Sitara posted an update in the group
Femme Straddlers 8 years, 2 months agoAny advice for looking queer while still embracing femme-ness? Is it even worth it to try to “look queer” if you’re not actively looking for a lady romantic interest? I feel vaguely uncomfy with the idea of people assuming I’m straight.
-
Tiffany joined the group
Singlestraddlers… Ready to Mingle! 8 years, 2 months ago
-
Tiffany joined the group
The Great Library of Autostraddle 8 years, 2 months ago -
Rachel joined the group
The Great Library of Autostraddle 8 years, 2 months ago -
Swizz posted an update in the group
The Great Library of Autostraddle 8 years, 2 months agoHas anyone read anything by Mary Karr – poet, author.
I’ve read 2 poems now and they are really good. I’m waiting on her 2nd autobiography called ‘Lit’ and would like to talk about her.
She also write ‘The Liars Club’.Thoughts?
-
Z as in Zee, not Zed joined the group
Femme Straddlers 8 years, 2 months ago -
echidna posted an update in the group
OkCupid Survivor Group 8 years, 2 months agoHi Everyone,
Is it only me or is okCupid highly entertaining sometimes? Some of the profiles or messages are just really fun maybe I am slightly off. -
echidna joined the group
OkCupid Survivor Group 8 years, 2 months ago -
katie joined the group
Singlestraddlers… Ready to Mingle! 8 years, 2 months ago
-
katie joined the group
Baltimore / D.C. Autostraddlers! 8 years, 2 months ago -
Edward joined the group
The Great Library of Autostraddle 8 years, 2 months ago -
Liora joined the group
The Great Library of Autostraddle 8 years, 2 months ago -
HermioneStranger joined the group
Femme Straddlers 8 years, 2 months ago -
Sarah joined the group
Straddler-on-Straddler advice 8 years, 2 months ago
-
Sarah joined the group
Femme Straddlers 8 years, 2 months ago -
Sarah joined the group
Singlestraddlers… Ready to Mingle! 8 years, 2 months ago
-
Alana joined the group
Baltimore / D.C. Autostraddlers! 8 years, 2 months ago -
cake joined the group
The Great Library of Autostraddle 8 years, 2 months ago -
Georgie joined the group
Singlestraddlers… Ready to Mingle! 8 years, 2 months ago
-
Sitara joined the group
Femme Straddlers 8 years, 2 months ago - Load More
I just be myself and wear what I want but act queer – no matter whether you have on heels or Docs, or a v neck or body con dress, the flirty prolonged eye contact trick generally gives us away! ;)
I think doing different looks with you hair can really make a difference :)
I think it’s still worth it to look queer (if you want to) even if you’re not actively looking. I know for my part that I base a lot of how comfortable I feel in a place on how visible queer and other minoritized people are. Naturally, the more comfortable I feel, the more likely I am to frequent a place and to feel safe in expressing myself. I’m…[Read more]