Hi Zohar,

I think it’s okay if you are all over the place. It means you’re figuring things out for yourself, which is great! I think using labels is okay in the queer community because it allows you to identify and relate to others with similar experiences. I am 25 and just realized earlier this year that I was bisexual. I have come out to the…[Read more]

I have long felt that sexuality and gender are closely related. I personally feel in the middle of both the sexuality and gender spectrum and am attracted to others who are the same (friendships included).
It seems as if labels, identifications and conformity are all natural human impulses, unfortunately. I believe if that weren’t the case we…[Read more]

My gender and sexuality are very interrelated! Coming out as bi to myself was actually what postponed my realization that I am nonbinary because I never had to question myself when I found someone else attractive. Now I’ve realized that the more agender I am the more I’m attracted to women while I’m more attracted to masculine people when my…[Read more]

I have those problems too. I always try to think of a way out of social situations I won’t be 100% comfortable in, which has lost me a number of friends, and it’s hard making new ones when I spend so much time silently trying to think of what to say that people just decide that I’m not interested in talking to them at all. :( After losing one of…[Read more]

If you’re into Essex County, you might also like Mariko Tamaki & Jillian Tamaki’s books (Skim, which is queer-themed, and This One Summer, which is not).