Is anyone looking to chat? I’m hoping to get to know some other femmes. I don’t know too many people locally, so I’m hoping to make some new friends via lovely autostraddle!

So, I’m struggling with some internalized sexism. Mostly I’ve gotten really femme over the years and these days my dominant personality trait seems to get read as “sweet” or “empathetic.” I pride myself at being better at emotions than other folks working in my field, but I also sort of hate being “the sweet girl” instead of “the smart girl.” I…[Read more]

This is going to sound terribly rude, but I don’t feel a connection to the deck I own anymore. They feel like I’m shuffling impartial playing cards. I’m second-guessing everything and don’t trust any of the readings anymore. HELP! Does anyone have any advice at all on getting past this? Has it ever happened to you before?

Any other femme gender-questioning/genderqueer folks around here?