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The Great Library of Autostraddle 11 years, 8 months agoI just finished reading The Marriage Plot by Jeffrey Eugenides, which I thought was pretty good. Not particularly gay, but an interesting story nontheless (if you like Jonathan Franzen type books).
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The Great Library of Autostraddle 11 years, 8 months agohey! I am in the middle of Tolstoi’s Anna Karénine and I love it! SOOO much better than Madame Bovary!!
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The Great Library of Autostraddle 11 years, 8 months agoHi everyone,
I hope self-promotion is OK in this group…
I just released my first novel ‘Come and Go’. It’s (extremely) lesbian-themed and set in Hong Kong and this about sums it up: ‘A blend of chick lit, romance and lesbian drama set against the backdrop of that other city that never sleeps.’
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I think I’m going to post this question in a few groups to try to maximize advice… Please comment if you have any thoughts!
I’m a queer cis femme college grad who just started seeing a female-bodied genderqueer person who goes by the pronouns they/their/them. I’m doing my best to get used to using these pronouns, which I consistently do when…[Read more]
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honestly, you’ve answered your own question. really, do just go up to your partner and ask. they’re the only one who’ll know the right answer, and it won’t seem like you’re getting ahead of yourself at all.
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thanks for your advice! i know it’s pretty obvious, but i just didn’t want to… you know… seem like i was falling too hard/too fast by suggesting that i’m talking about them ALL THE TIME. but i think i will just go ahead and ask next time we’re together. thanks again!
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don’t worry about it! if anything, they’ll be flattered that you’re 1) willing to talk about them with your friends (seems like a small gesture, but it means a lot) and 2) concerned about being respectful and doing right by them. you really can’t go wrong here, so go for it!
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