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Autostraddle Over 30 10 years, 9 months agoAny advise on coming out in your thirties? I’ve been divorced since 2010, and haven’t looked back. Taken this time to get to know myself and realized that I am Soooo gay… always have been. Looking back over my teens and 20s, it all makes so much more sense. Not sure why I never realized it, but I’m going with the fact that it just wasn’t as…[Read more]
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I can’t speak specifically to your situation, but I can offer mine. I came out as bi (in the South, so I gotcha, girl!) as a teenager, but when I married a guy in my early twenties, everyone sort of assumed “phase.” So when my husband and I split a few years ago and I started dating women again, I had to come out all over to a lot of people in my…[Read more]
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Not Straight After All, Hey-O! 10 years, 11 months agoSo Im a 31 year old single mother of 2 (both under 5 years old)…and Im only out to 3 people. I want to be out to everlyone but it seems so complecated! Any advise on how to meet a lady without heading out to the only gay bar in town? Is it even something I should even think about before I come out to more people??
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I would say don’t worry so much about being “out.” Also, hitting bars isn’t always the greatest either. There are a lot of pros and cons to online dating. Its hard to meet women, and yes, it is harder when you come out later. I came out 2 yrs ago and am only now getting the hang of flirting; and my gaydar is completely disfuntional. But you…[Read more]
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Autostraddle Over 30 11 years, 6 months agoHey y’all–
I’m not sure how to reply to an individual thread so I’ll just cast the net wide and say hello to everyone. I see some people are in their early 30’s–hopefully you are all enjoying the greater sense of self that comes with surviving your 20’s!
I feel like I can now say with the confidence born of experience, It Gets Better. :-)
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Not Straight After All, Hey-O! 11 years, 9 months agoGee girls, the ‘straddle poll says only 6% of ‘straddlers are over 35. PALEASE do not tell me I’m the grandmother of this site, please!
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No you ARE not the grandma!! I’m so old I can’t even figure out how to put my picture in my profile LOL…I did the whole Gravatar thing…NOW WHAT?!
Hope there are more of us over 40 and just came out gals!
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I feel the same way. I’m so new to this site, I feel like a baby, but since I’m 40 I feel like an outcast.
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I’m 66 and just starting to live as the lesbian that I’ve been denying all these years! I’m the Grandma Lesbian here!!! Now to find the love of my life….big job.
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Us over 40 late bloomers need to stick together. I still haven’t quite decided if I am or not, I’ve questioned my sexuality a few times over the years but, while relationships with men don’t quite feel right, I can’t say I want an intimate relationship with a woman either. So now what?
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