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straddlers, i’ve got a problem. i’ve finally gotten in a relationship with this guy i thought i liked all year, but now that i’m with him, i feel trapped. he’s all about PDA, while i can’t stand even holding hands in public. we don’t really have much in common. just as he started to reciprocate my affections, i realized that i don’t really have…[Read more]
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I feel like, if I were him, I’d rather get dumped after a week and so I could start to get over it than be wondering why you wouldn’t hold my hand for three months and then get dumped when you leave for college.
If you think you don’t like him at all or feel like it’s not going to develop then I say cut him loose. But if there’s a chance give it ago and just let him know you don’t like PDAs. You don’t have to have things in common, that’s what makes the two of you interesting and different. As someone who still thinks about my ex quite a bit, I think…[Read more]
i would recommend a breakup, but if your gonna stay with him voice your concerns(like the pda thing). If he doesn’t listen, defo breakup. If he listens, well then thats awes and enjoy it.
thanks so much, everyone! i’ve decided to give it a little more time and see how things progress, and it’s going along much more smoothly now :)