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Fencestraddlers 8 years, 2 months agoGood Evening
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Also Working On It 8 years, 2 months agodoes anyone have any tips on motivation/discipline? i plan my workouts ahead of time (at least two days before), and then i have trouble following through on actually doing them. this kind of works because it makes sure i don’t set myself a workout that won’t push me just because i’m tired, but i always have trouble getting myself to get out of…[Read more]
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I usually have to make a bargain with myself, like ‘okay if you go to the gym for the next two days then you can sit at home all Saturday eating M&Ms and watching television and not feel bad about it’. It’s not effective every time, but most times. Maybe someone else knows a way that doesn’t involve self-bribery.
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This is why I had to go for team sports and why I have been lazy AF since the season ended. workout buddy? someone else to help keep you accountable?
I was just reading a book that suggested being mindful of how you talk to yourself about things. Try to avoid thinking “I should” or “I have to” etc. and instead try to focus on the positive…[Read more]
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Fencestraddlers 8 years, 2 months agoHey so, some validation is needed: its totally normal to be in a committed relationship with a dude or whatever and just miss the female body right?
I know its fine but it kinda, at more vulnerable moments, makes me feel like a “greedy” bi trope, you know.Thoughts?
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Oh my god yes. I suspect that if I stay with my current dude long-term I will absolutely need to do some open or poly stuff at some point. I tend to think it’s because I’m way further to the lesbian end of the spectrum than the other end, but it’s probably totally justified even without that.
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That feels so good to hear! I feel like I’m drifting that way too. I just – ladies are so cool, and dudes are alright – I just happen to be in love with one :P
But with open stuff my worry all like the anti-bi rhetoric like oh “bi folk aren’t loyal” etc
Like all the things in Heather Hogans tv recap today – pertinent.
Plus do ladies even…[Read more]
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Yeah I don’t know about that one. There’s anti-bi thinking all over the place, so being open or poly can definitely be hard. Some people manage it, and manage to form communities where people are ok with it, but I sure haven’t had any luck with that yet…
> ladies are so cool, and dudes are alright – I just happen to be in love with one
I 100% f…[Read more]
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I think that’s totally fine! And I hear you about being closer to the lesbian end of the spectrum – I define myself as a misandrist who makes exceptions…
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Ha ha ha that is awesome :)
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i would just like to add my 2 cents to this convo…which is i agree with everything that was already said.
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Also Working On It 8 years, 2 months agoThis is such a good essay. Includes stuff about the Marines fitness test, the story about women and strength, and the mental and physical aspects of doing a pull-up. Plus @crystal it ends with a climbing gym!
http://thehairpin.com/2014/03/how-to-do-pull-ups/
Currently on week 2 of my pull-up challenge of 2k15, based on this article.
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Also Working On It 8 years, 2 months agoThe last time I started trying to work out I had one less child and I only made it two days into the couchto5k program. So yeah. Let’s do this.
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