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Emma posted an update in the group
There are so many amazing jobs in Chicago I don’t know what I’m still doing in Grand Rapids
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Come to Chicago.
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Where are these amazing jobs give them to me!
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Where are these amazing jobs give them to me!
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if you like kids/working with teenagers/social services or counseling there are tons of jobs on Craigslist!
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so when are you moving here?
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Maybe in September
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yo-ren-ishii posted an update in the group
The condom mishap: This is for all my fellow queers who like to wrap up their toys when playing, but may be allergic to latex.
A few weeks ago I thought to myself, “self…. I need to be fucked (strapped)” . Now usually I’m the one strapping it on but oh how times are a changing. So my umm boi and I headed over to the local Target store and pick u…[Read more]
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It’s a true story.
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Bob Dylan just ran through my head. The times, they are a changin’…
This is very, very good advice Yo! Thanks!
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happy to help!
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Manic Mari posted an update in the group
Fencestraddlers 12 years, 5 months agoI’m kind of a dork when it comes to the different terms for sexuality.
I am sexual. I like sex.
Whether it be with man, woman, both or neither.. I’m not very picky as long as the person is someone I enjoy being around/touching/kissing/licking… whatever.
What would the term be for that, I wonder.
In high school, it was called “being a slut,” but…[Read more]-
I’ve had a conversation about this with my friends, and I decided that “humansexual” is possibly the best term and should become a new thing.
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Yeah, the reason I didn’t come out as bi in high school, even though I went to a mostly queer-positive high school, is most of the girls who called themselves bisexuals were seen as “sluts” – and I didn’t want to be like them in any sense. (This was before I was enlightened to the concept of “slut-shaming” etc.)
Also, heterosexuality was still…[Read more]
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Emma posted an update in the group
I’m joining the group because I really REALLY want to move to Chicago, and knowing some awesome queers will hopefully motivate me enough to make it happen!
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make that shit happen!!! i did!
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how did you do it? I mean the only thing really holding me back right now is my fear of being unemployed/failing/having to move back in with my mother (yikes) and it’s a big cliff to jump off
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well, i kind of got lucky. my friend and her new wife moved to L.A. and need someone to rent her condo. i really didn’t want to move to chicago so soon but i couldn’t pass up the deal. i still work and go to school in dekalb, well until i don’t have to anymore.
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Beez posted an update in the group
I’m not good at meeting ladies. My friends tell me I should play a sport or join a club. I embrace clichés. Hence, the following question:
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I don’t know, but I’d be interested as well.
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If you figure it out, I’m totally up for it too. Weeeee sports!
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Check out CMSA Women’s sports. Softball plays at Montrose Park every sunday afternoon. :-)
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CMSA is the best thing ever!!
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Remich posted an update in the group
When is it going to be summer? Seriously, anybody know? I’m tired of looking out at a beautiful sunny city and realizing it’s not even 50 degrees outside…
Waking up to this and then having to put on a sweatshirt is not fair:
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My parents tell me of this strange year (2 years ago? maybe?) where it only got legit warm for 2 weeks in July and then started cooling off. I almost panicked. I move to the south for 2 years and get spoiled by tulips popping out of the ground in January.
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Yeah, that actually happened. It was not fun. Hopefully not again this year… we’ve already had those two 90 degree days, so I’m hoping that won’t be the case…
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Nuala posted an update in the group
Fencestraddlers 12 years, 5 months agoI run with “pansexual”. For me it has always been about a sexual *spark* between me and another person(s). More about the energy/chemistry for me, than physique or larger-than-life body parts.
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