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Manic Mari posted an update in the group
Fencestraddlers 12 years, 3 months ago I’m kind of a dork when it comes to the different terms for sexuality.
I am sexual. I like sex.
Whether it be with man, woman, both or neither.. I’m not very picky as long as the person is someone I enjoy being around/touching/kissing/licking… whatever.
What would the term be for that, I wonder.
In high school, it was called “being a slut,” but I just think the people who used to say that were simply jealous that I was having all these wonderful relationships, and they weren’t getting any..
Opinions?
I’ve had a conversation about this with my friends, and I decided that “humansexual” is possibly the best term and should become a new thing.
Yeah, the reason I didn’t come out as bi in high school, even though I went to a mostly queer-positive high school, is most of the girls who called themselves bisexuals were seen as “sluts” – and I didn’t want to be like them in any sense. (This was before I was enlightened to the concept of “slut-shaming” etc.)
Also, heterosexuality was still the norm and as an outsider I was desperate to be normal in any way possible.