I work at a part of the UN, and am one of 3 or 4 Americans on my floor. As a result they think all my gay signifiers(coded to a very specific regional culture) are just stylish affectations. It’s kind of endearing.

Umm, well I’ll just chime in by saying it takes significantly more flexibility and physical exertion than people like to admit. My partner in crime and I spent about 5 mins trying to position ourselves in a non-stupid way and eventually just went back to business as usual. I’ve heard the noise is pretty lulzy though.

This is a pay-to-play site (boo!) http://www.lesbiankamasutra.com/kama-sutra-sex/
My wife and I do something like the position the site calls “frogs legs.” It does require flexibility and stamina, but it feels amazing.
Experiment and see what positions work for you.

Preach.
I don’t have any other resources to add, but I want to add a +1 to “Yes Means Yes.” That book is amazing.

Great idea! I did write in anon last year or something asking for posts on W/W assault, as a survivor who couldn’t find any sort of resources along that vein. Thanks for your initiative.