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Shystraddlers 12 years ago
You guyssss, I think I really like this girl at work, but we are both sooo painfully shy/awkward that we don’t really talk at all in real life :( We sort of work in different departments, too, which makes it even more difficult. HOW DO I PUSH THROUGH THIS CRIPPLING ANXIETY. she is really cute and a confirmed gay and I think she’s into me, too. we…[Read more]
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Straddlers on Coming Out 12 years ago
I would like some advice on coming out to my roommate. I have no clue whether she’s homophobic or not. She’s pretty religious, and I think probably conservative (we haven’t really talked politics). I’ve brought up gay things/people before and she literally had no reaction, so I don’t know if that means she doesn’t care or didn’t want to get into…[Read more]
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Thanks for the advice!
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I agree that you should test the waters with gay-related topics, and you never know – she might surprise you. Young fundamentalists are increasingly likely to disagree with their churches on gay rights, especially ones who actually know gay people. I knew plenty of people in high school who were lock-step with what their pastor or church believed…[Read more]
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Andrea posted an update in the group
xkcd is the best forever.
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I love that comic even when I don’t understand it. Also Saturday Morning Breakfast Cereal has made me laugh out loud at least 3 times this week
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Yes! I can’t believe I didn’t say SMBC too. I’m also fond of Garfield without Garfield, but that’s not particularly geeky.
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if you like garfield minus garfield, may i recommend 3eanuts; it’s even better.
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Has anyone here noticed how the latest string of Gunnerkrigg Court updates have been SUPER INCREDIBLY QUEER?? my heart has grown six sizes seeing all this groundwork laid for future textual Kat/Annie happening.
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OhMiGod! Yes! I keep trying to convince my brother that sometning is going on there (he reads it too, obvs), but her doesn’t see it. I’ve been waiting for this to happen for quite a while.
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Dayna posted an update in the group
So, Im about to go to my university’s GLBTQA student org meeting, which is a first for me. So far Im out to pretty much no one, so this is a rather large step… and Im sorta freaking out >< It's no big deal, right? So why cant I remember that, lol. Sigh
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How did it go? I remember feeling the exact same way last year when I went to my school’s LGBT group.
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It went really well, better than I was hoping. Walking in the door was scary as shit, lol. So many people! But everyone was friendly, and that was awesome. Something to go to again, for sure. :)
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Great! I’m glad it was a good experience. I felt like I basically had “gay” tattooed to my forehead and had to keep telling myself that no one there cared whether I was gay or straight or whatever. It probably didn’t help that I hadn’t come out to anybody yet.
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Yeah, there was that too. But then I thought about how oblivious I was about the group before I went looking for it, so that made things a bit better. Im in no shape to come out to friends/family at the moment… need to finish figuring myself out first, lol
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That’s awesome that it went well! I was going to say that LGBTQA groups in college usually have at least a few straight ally members so don’t worry that you’re announcing your sexuality in any way.
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Hannah posted an update in the group
I always have these really really perfect moments for coming out, but I never take them. For instance, at my school both students from low-income families and students who identify as LGBTQ are considered minorities, and when one of my friends was listing the minority groups, I laughed and said, “Well, I’m a minority,” and she said, “I had no idea…[Read more]
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cindy posted an update in the group
I work as a nanny. My six year old is constantly asking me to marry her.
Conversations we have go like this:
Me: Isn’t it cool that I give you a different hairstyle everyday?
6yo: Yes… Can I marry you?out of the blue:
6yo: have you kissed someone on the lips?
Me: errr…. yes.
6yo: More girls than boys?
Me: errr… yes.
6yo: me too.6yo: are…[Read more]
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that’s by far the cutest thing ever. Have you ever seen the movie here come the girls 3? If not watch it for the part with the Japanese girl. So cute.
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Well, my advice would be to invite her out to a place with a mellower atmosphere. Personally, if a girl – even one I was interested in – invited me to a party where I probably wouldn’t know anybody, I’d probably decline. Especially when I’m not into the partying scene.
I’d suggest something casual ie: seeing a movie featuring some hot actress at…[Read more]