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Gilbert posted an update in the group Genderstraddlers 9 years, 1 month ago

Hi, I hope it’s okay to post this ramble here. I’m interested in getting other people’s opinions. So. I was in a supermarket when a person caught my eye. They were super attractive imo, but I couldn’t tell if they are cismale, trans or a butch loving ciswoman(or anything else really). This in itself isn’t a problem except i know that if they did…[Read more]

Gilbert replied 9 years, 1 month ago

No one?
Alli replied 9 years, 1 month ago

i don’t really understand why you don’t think they’d be attractive? if you were drawn to them before then why wouldn’t you be after you know their gender? is it whats in the pants that scares you?
Quinn E. replied 9 years ago

If you’d find trans men sexually attractive or consider them potential sexual partners but not cis men, you should interrogate the reason behind that. Especially if the reverse is also true and you find cis women sexually attractive/consider them to be potential sexual partners but not trans women.

I’m a bisexual non binary woman-ish person. I…[Read more]
- Gilbert replied 9 years ago
  
  Thanks. I think that’s what I’m talking about. Like I’m vaguely aware that I think I have these preferences but they probably stem from a bit of a place im not proud of. So I’m going to think about it a bit more. Because I don’t want to disrespect anyone’s gender identity. That’s super shitty. But I don’t think i can control inside feelings. Mmm.…[Read more]

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