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Crystal posted an update in the group
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Stuck in Texas…ugh. Finally realized that if the only way I could enjoy relations with men was by imagining they were women, probably meant I should stop sleeping with them. Finally putting all of the pieces together and starting to accept and feel more comfortable than ever about who I am. Mostly out. Except I face a lot of really frustrating…[Read more]
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Hey GUUUURRLL wachu doin! (oops, re-represses ghetto side)
*throat clear*
Where are you from in San Antonio? North side, South side, East or West? I know it’s harder to be gay in certain areas than others – then again, it’s just hard being gay in Texas.
It’s also difficult being gay if you fall into certain “demographics”. Are you “white” or…[Read more]
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jolotus posted an update in the group
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Ok I am gay. Like super, totally gay. And I guess a little femme. And I seem to have a lot of men floating around the edges of my life (classmates, flatmates etc) who dont believe me, and are waiting for me to get over it and start dating men. It annoys the f*ck out of me that because I do not look butch they do not believe I am gay. How do I get…[Read more]
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jolotus posted an update in the group
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Starting to despair….have recently stopped having rubbish relationships with men and come out as gay to all my loved ones….feeling much happier but failing to meet any gay women at all, even to just be friends with. Im stranded in Germany, with very little German skills, and I cant access the LGBT groups here. When I go out I get so much…[Read more]
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Hey :) it sounds really tough. But, hey, good job coming out, and please don’t despair. Really, everything will come at some point, and coming out is a very big step. You never think it’s going to happen to you, but really it’s just a question of keeping on reaching out to people around you and being who you are. People will like you for the…[Read more]
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Hey there!
Where in Germany do you live? I live in Germany too, so just write me if you like :)
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Hi Taylor, thanks for the messages….you know things got so much better in the last month. I think I was just kind of impatient :) I have some gay female friends here now and its much better. But I am always happy to make more :)
I live in Dresden…you?
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Valentina posted an update in the group
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I’m so lost on coming out. I feel like I am trapped. I only have one gay family member and its my great aunt. I don’t know who to come out to and when… HELP! :<
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I’m in the same boat. Don’t talk to anyone till you’re ready… at least that’s what every thing i read says. lol. I told my best friend the a couple weeks ago that im questioning. He took it really well. find some one you trust completely, that helps.
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Alright, thank you so much for the advice.
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Exactly. don’t panic, start out by telling your friends, and don’t worry about being the only gay in the family. I was too, and my family was very cool. How did they react to you aunt coming out? Also, if you are not getting married in a few weeks, then don’t hurry with telling them, unless you think your relationsship is being hurt by keeping it…[Read more]
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Audi posted an update in the group
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My story is long and complicated, so I will simplify as much as I can. At many different points in my life I knew I was gay. I was always to afraid to just let me be me, so I ended up just coming out as bi and calling it good. I really convinced myself that was all I was. I am married to the most wonderful man. We have been best friends since…[Read more]
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