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Fencestraddlers 8 years, 1 month agoAny queer ladies in straight-appearing partnerships with kids? I don’t have any yet, but I wonder a lot about how/when I would address my sexuality with them since Mommy and Daddy would appear straight. I’m just starting to look for an in-person queer community to participate in, so I don’t have anyone I’d take cues from yet. Would any of you be…[Read more]
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Laura Mandanas posted an update in the group
Fencestraddlers 8 years, 1 month agoHello! I hope you’re all having a good day. I’m sitting at my desk at work still feeling lots of feelings about that incredible open thread situation yesterday.
I saw some of y’all started swapping Tumblrs in the comments, but there was just SO MUCH going on in that thread that I wanted to boost it here. I’d really love to follow all of you and…[Read more]
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Rachel posted an update in the group
Fencestraddlers 8 years, 1 month agoah, so many people joining in the last day! hi everyone! thanks so much to everyone who shared and supported each other on our open thread yesterday! i really hope we can keep talking about everything that came up and keep supporting each other here. please don’t be shy about saying hi, sharing an experience, or reaching out for support!
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I’m not in this situation, but I know that Faith Cheltenham of BiNetUSA is partnered with a man and they have children — she may have written about this before, and that might be helpful!
This fits me. My kids are 4 and 7 and I’ve had girlfriends over, but it’s not like I’m making out in front of the kids.
I need to think about casually dropping it into conversations because I don’t want to make it seem like a big deal or secret.
Right? I’m currently swimming in a bisexual parenting internet rabbit hole (thanks, @internrachel!), and I’m seeing some pieces where people talk about LGBTQI+ parent social groups that include the kids, so that could be one way of normalizing the experience (I think the writer was in the UK and I closed the tab, otherwise I’d link). I also found…[Read more]
I also like the idea of extending the ideas in the latter half of this (http://everydayfeminism.com/2013/01/gender-neutral-parenting-myths/) to include encouraging critical thinking about the possibilities in our world for orientation as well as gender identity.