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Fencestraddlers 12 years, 2 months agoI can recommend this thread at feministe for a bit of hater-free sharing of bi personal histories: http://www.feministe.us/blog/archives/2011/08/04/i-like-boys-but-also-girls-but-also-boys/
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That piece really annoyed me to no end.
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Why, out of interest?
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Way too much complaining in that particular piece…over nothing. I’ll get into details @ later when my brain is less tired (only had 5 hrs sleep two days in a row).
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Ok…
From what I gathered, the majority of the women (including the author of the post) are in happy, loving relationships with men and there’s just so much…angst over it. I felt like I was reading the diary of a insecure teenager.If folks weren’t angsting over their feelings for women (which can either be resolved by making the…[Read more]
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Montrealers 12 years, 2 months ago
alright guys, so the few people who sent TCT their emails, you should get an email from me soon (nowish), and imma just say, that anyone else who wants to come to a meetup in the near future just send me or TCT a message and we will add you to the email chain.
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Fencestraddlers 12 years, 3 months agoOut of curiosity, does anyone else here feel a kind of different type of attraction towards a person depending on their gender? It’s definitely attraction, but it’s almost like an alternative mindset (in my own experience). Am I alone on this? Will this get me kicked out of the bisexual club? Honestly, though.
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you wouldn’t be kicked out of my club, i absolutely agree. to me, not only sexual attraction, but love feels different with different genders
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Yes.
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Yes to “different attractions to different genders,” not yes to “getting kicked out of the bisexual club.”
I get what you mean, though, about feeling guilt that you clearly do see gender despite being bisexual. It’s one of the reasons why I don’t identify as pan.
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This. I do see gender, and I especially see gender expression. I think it’s a good thing. Lots of people have issues/feelings about gender, and even if its not, its still a big factor in their lives. I think it’s good to be able to recognise that, especially for people whose gender/gender expression isn’t recognised by others.
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Fencestraddlers 12 years, 3 months agoLook up “sapiosexual” on Urban Dictionary, I don’t know if I’ve met a word that describes me better.
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Fencestraddlers 12 years, 3 months agothis feels sad, but true, guys:
http://www.robynochs.com/writing/essays/biphobia_short.html-
Agreed. :/
I keep intending to make a shirt with a big ‘B’ on it to wear to Pride, to increase our visibility. But every year, I forget until it’s too late.-
makes me glad autostraddle exists :)
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Yeah it would have been nice to see more bi shirts at pride, though I wore my “card-carrying bisexual” button.
Especially I saw some lesbian wearing a “bi now, gay later” shirt. Ugh.
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Fencestraddlers 12 years, 3 months agoHey hey,
Just started this tumblr to raise pride amongst us fence-straddlers: bi-pride.tumblr.com
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Montrealers 12 years, 3 months ago
OKAY you guys, me and allie are actually serious about a meetup. imma start an email chain, so message me with your email address and i will combine the old addresses and the new ones and i will hopefully flawlessly pull this off in an organizational maneuver worthy of JLo in The Wedding Planner. Okay? Okay. PM me your emails, you MTLstraddlers!
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Fencestraddlers 12 years, 3 months agoRegardless of how you identify, what do people think of this? http://www.thescavenger.net/glb/bisexuality-does-not-reinforce-the-gender-binary-39675.html In the article, the author explains why she identifies as bi rather than pan or something else. I personally feel like a lot of this resonates me in terms of why “bisexual” has always fit me…[Read more]
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Fencestraddlers 12 years, 3 months agoI found a really cheering sticker on an escalator the other day: it said “Les bi existent; la biphobie aussi” which means “Bisexuals exist; biphobia, too”. I felt a bit more included.
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