Ok I am gay. Like super, totally gay. And I guess a little femme. And I seem to have a lot of men floating around the edges of my life (classmates, flatmates etc) who dont believe me, and are waiting for me to get over it and start dating men. It annoys the f*ck out of me that because I do not look butch they do not believe I am gay. How do I get my point across without dressing butch (which I find hot on everyone else but just not me) and without telling them to go f*ck themselves (I still have to interact with these people). Argh