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jolotus posted an update in the group
Straddlers on Coming Out 10 years, 10 months ago
Starting to despair….have recently stopped having rubbish relationships with men and come out as gay to all my loved ones….feeling much happier but failing to meet any gay women at all, even to just be friends with. Im stranded in Germany, with very little German skills, and I cant access the LGBT groups here. When I go out I get so much attention form guys and even at gay nights no women seem to notice me…..am I giving out super-straight vibes or what?? Not really looking for advice I dont think, just support. Thanks
Hey :) it sounds really tough. But, hey, good job coming out, and please don’t despair. Really, everything will come at some point, and coming out is a very big step. You never think it’s going to happen to you, but really it’s just a question of keeping on reaching out to people around you and being who you are. People will like you for the adorable person you are. Sorry for being cheesy, but I just wished someone would have said this to me,,,
Hey there!
Where in Germany do you live? I live in Germany too, so just write me if you like :)
Hi Taylor, thanks for the messages….you know things got so much better in the last month. I think I was just kind of impatient :) I have some gay female friends here now and its much better. But I am always happy to make more :)
I live in Dresden…you?