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Genderstraddlers 11 years, 6 months agoThis is a not-entirely-related post, but is there anyone here who lives in/has lived in/knows someone who lives/has lived in Indianapolis? I really want to write a queer city guide for Indy, but not sure I can do it by myself. I’d really love to collaborate if you think you can help out. Thank you!!!!
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Vancouver Autostraddlers 11 years, 6 months ago
Does anyone have suggestions of good buildings to live in around the dt/gastown/yaletown areas? :)
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Ohhh! Canada 11 years, 6 months agoI live in NYC but I speak to people in Canada often on the phone for work. Almost every day I want to tell a woman I am speaking to how cute her accent is, but I think that would be pretty inappropriate and most likely awkward. I am here to tell all you lovely Canadians you have wonderful accents…hopefully it is not awkward.
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Genderstraddlers 11 years, 7 months agoHey Straddlers! Long time no post. This is an old video so I’m aware some of you may have seen it before but I just recently stumbled across it and thought I’d share. In it, Tobi Hill-Meyer talks about her experiences as a butch trans woman and discusses issues of transmisogyny and femmephobia.
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I can’t believe there is only 17 ppl here! I just moved back to Vancouver from Toronto and am so happy to be home. Anything new happening in the scene? I saw that the Cobalt seems to have some fun queer times. Anything else?
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Ohhh! Canada 11 years, 7 months agoCalgary! Any fellow Canadians goin to camp?
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Genderstraddlers 11 years, 7 months agoHello everyone! I’m new to Auto. This group appears to a perfect fit for me.
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Yay! I’m glad you think so. It’s been a little quiet ’round these parts of late- if I ever get out from under this pile of uni work I might actually get around to posting something again. You should of course feel free to post about anything gender-related that piques your interest :)
Also, welcome to Autostraddle!
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Ohhh! Canada 11 years, 7 months agoHey all :D anyone on here from Kitchener or near?
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Genderstraddlers 11 years, 8 months agoI think I’m going to post this question in a few groups to try to maximize advice… Please comment if you have any thoughts!
I’m a queer cis femme college grad who just started seeing a female-bodied genderqueer person who goes by the pronouns they/their/them. I’m doing my best to get used to using these pronouns, which I consistently do when…[Read more]
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Well, as someone who is only out to some people as trans, I ask people when I tell them about me to continue using my old name and pronouns in public. My guess then for you would to be continuing using female pronouns until you’re able to talk with them about it.
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Nikki, thank you for your advice! I thought I had responded but apparently not–sorry! See my response to smartypants below if you’re interested in how things turned out… thanks again for your input.
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I maybe a little late to this party but wanted to lend some support–and also, applaud both your sensitivity and sense of politeness. I’m a big fan of being polite! Perhaps since your original comment was about a month ago, you’d be willing to let us know how it evolved for you?–what did you decide? How did you choose to negotiate this?–hope all is well.
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Hey! Sorry for the slow response… saw this at work last week and didn’t get to reply. I ended up finally talking to the person about the pronoun question a couple weeks ago. They told me that they prefer for me/people to use their pronouns (they/their) in the company of others, since using she/her can create an uncomfortable disconnect on the…[Read more]
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Well done Lindsay for having that conversation with your friend–and if I remember correctly, a romantic friend, n’est ce pas? In which case, I hope it’s going well…..
W/r/t friends who keep blowing it with the pronouns–I think calling on it “in the moment” (no Italics!) is probs the way I would go. Like small children and puppies, training…[Read more]
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