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To all question bi-dar and gaydar related.
I generally tend to flirt or what’s wrong with a straight up asking someone? Just go for someone you think is hot, you have nothing to lose esp if they are giving you the signals.-
Except sometimes they’ll flirt with you for an hour and then mention their girlfriend. It’s annoying and awkward, but nobody ever died of awkward. :D
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I’m just super lucky and end up hitting on girls in front of their girlfriends like 90% of the time. I’ve even given a girl a rose in front of her girlfriend :P
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Once, I went to a lesbian dance night for a friend of a friend’s birthday. I had a little bouquet of flowers from my garden as a gift for the birthday girl, and a super-hot chick asks me for one. Thinking she was flirting, I handed off a sprig. Then she told me she was straight….
….and then she asked her friends if they’d seen a girl named…[Read more]
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I have def wanted to, though ;)
I guess you have to be comfortable outing yourself to someone who might be straight and be uncomfortable with lady love or being hit on by another woman. I live in a smaller city where it’s very difficult to do stuff like that without it becoming common gossip amongst my ‘circles’, maybe it’d be easier for people…[Read more]
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Help, I am bad at dating girls.
I’m crushing on a girl who I know slightly (she’s a first year, and I am an officer in the upperclass house that is supposed to help them have fun–obviously college students need help with that) and I’ve hung out with her a bit and at our formal she got ditched by her friends and I got her to dance with my group…[Read more]-
I personally think the more pertinent question is: if she were to return your affections and you Autostraddled in some form, would you get in trouble? If the answer is yes, wait. If the answer is no, proceed with caution. Either way, you could at least try to get to know her a little better? Maybe you’ll end up really clicking and get gay married…[Read more]
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I think when we suspect that someone likes us back, we’re usually right, it’s just harder to see when you’re involved. But either way I agree get to know her better. Add her on fb and chat or just ask her to coffee, in a super friendly way, get to know the vibes. But also I agree with @kdizzle about the considering the consequences.
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allie posted an update in the group
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also bi-dar question: go see my answer to the person asking about gaydar. i dont go for overly stereotypical girls, and there are just as many bisexual girls who look like “lesbians”, so yeah, its tricky.
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allie posted an update in the group
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why is reply not working properly…
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Rose posted an update in the group
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Question I have for everyone: How does BI-DAR work? I’m bi and apparently all my friends, at least the queer ones, knew it before I did. I get gay-dar since it often has to do with stereotypes (effeminate dudes, girls with alternative lifestyle haircuts) but what are those signs for bis? The only stereotype I know of for bi girls is the…[Read more]
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Rose posted an update in the group
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Okay, it won’t let me reply, but in response to the last post: You’re not overreacting, you’re totally right to be offended by people calling you that. But I don’t think you should kill him. A lot of people don’t realize that using words like “dyke” and “fag” in an affectionate, non-offensive way is mostly exclusive to members of the team, and…[Read more]
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thanks. :)
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You’re welcome. Here’s a good link that explains it: http://chronos-tachyon.net/mirror/io.com/s3chap5.html in case you’re having trouble.
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My girlfriend and I have 2 male cats who are also a couple. We catch them having shameless gay cat sex all the time. It’s pretty cute.
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My cats are prison gay.
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I have two male cats who are a couple. One of them goes both ways, though – we used to have a female cat and he was always trying to have sex with her, despite the fact that they were both fixed. But even then, he was still boyfriends with the other queer boy cat. They have gay love-fests about once a day.
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