I’m just going to have a vent moment. Today I was told “Yeah I know you’re a lesbian but I DONT think you’re gay because your feminine.” What the heck?! So I have to dress more tomboy for people (other gay people) to me seriously?! Has this happened to anyone else? #femmegirlproblems

Any Seattle Femmes out there in the Straddleverse? Or PNW in general? Have you heard of Femme Fest Seattle? It’s November 7-8 and looks amazing! Hope to see some straddlers there.
https://www.facebook.com/events/1910441555848696/

I wanted to alert you to the great discussion we had on the last episode of my popular podcast, Livin’ and Lovin’ in NYC. The episode is about butch lesbians and trans men, and Roey Thorpe’s article, “Where have all the butches gone?” We also discussed ideas about feminism and trans identities being at odds. It’s a great show.…[Read more]