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Kerlia Aubrielle Rockwood posted an update in the group
Only Straddler In The Village 12 years, 3 months ago
i have one gay friend here in Temecula, California. And a lot of Bi people that I can’t take seriously and are complete and utter drama. :/ if there are any gay “get togethers” there are people protesting somewhere in town. So me and my only gay friend have coffee whenever we can and gossip and laugh. She also plans trips for all her queer friends…[Read more]
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Kerlia Aubrielle Rockwood joined the group
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krystal posted an update in the group
Only Straddler In The Village 12 years, 3 months ago
i’m here, and i’m queer.. but it feels like i’m the only one in my side of the world.. so.. hollah!!
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krystal joined the group
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Lisa posted an update in the group
Only Straddler In The Village 12 years, 3 months ago
Rural NW Pennsylvania. It’s a small town, fairly close minded. There’s a small group of gay guys, but on the lesbian/bisexual girl side of things it’s pretty lonely.
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Lisa joined the group
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middlemuse posted an update in the group
Only Straddler In The Village 12 years, 4 months ago
You guuuuuuys. I have feelings.
It’s the feeling of “I’m 24 and I’ve never dated because I’ve only been out for less than a year and now I’m in the Philippines in the Peace Corps and EVEN IF I defied all odds and met another gay/bi girl who was patient enough to deal with all my personality quirks, I’d get to see her like MAYBE once a month and…[Read more]
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oh man. I just want to give you a really long hug…
first of all, congratulations on coming out! also, it’s not bad to never have dated at 24. or 26. don’t beat yourself up for that. I bet you are a really awesome person doing awesome and interesting things. peace corpse! FTW!
the worst part should not be the “I’ve never dated”-part, but the…[Read more]-
Aw, thanks. A really long hug is pretty much what I need, but sympathetic ears are just as good. It’s not all bad, but there are days when the loneliness and the feelings of being against-the-odds just wear you down. But that’s all Peace Corps, I think, not just Gay Peace Corps.
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Yup, one of my friends is a straight dude and the other one is a straight chick. I tend to check out girls with the dude, because um, the straight chick just doesn’t get it. And she can’t relate *at all*. Irritating! But yeah, I live in straightsville too. All the girls I think are cute want to flirt with my cute male friend. Argh.
I’ve never…[Read more]
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Tumblr. Mostly I do Tumblr.
Well, and I do talk about/check out girls with the straight guy friend, but it lost some of the luster recently he actually started having success with one of them. Lotta flirting going on, which is great and I’m happy for him, but it kind of drove home the fact that I can’t do that, you know? I’m really jealous that…[Read more]
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Katttherine joined the group
Only Straddler In The Village 12 years, 4 months ago
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Allison posted an update in the group
Only Straddler In The Village 12 years, 4 months ago
While I do know one other lesbian in town, I’m pretty sure she doesn’t read Autostraddle. But she should!
I live in northern Illinois, not quite close enough to Madison, Chicago, Milwaukee, or any other large city. And it sorta sucks.
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Laura L joined the group
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Allison joined the group
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Ash posted an update in the group
Only Straddler In The Village 12 years, 4 months ago
Joining this group as I will very soon be the only Straddler in the Village. In a week I’ll be moving back to Central California Fresno Area. Which, for those that are not savvy to California but know their Glee, is that area Chris Colfer is from. That area he doesn’t say kind things about due to the super conservative-gender rigid nature of the…[Read more]
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I’m sorry. I’ve been to that area (one of my stepsisters lives around there, my mom lives in the mountains north of there) and… yeah, it’s not the kindest place to GSMs (gender & sexuality minorities). There might be some resources around now, though? Some places will surprise you–the culture of an area can vary widely over the years, and it’s…[Read more]
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Ash joined the group
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Rinnie posted an update in the group
Only Straddler In The Village 12 years, 4 months ago
East Central Illinois, here. Plenty of cornfields, but that’s about it. I’m so jealous of all the Chicago straddlers.
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Carmen posted an update in the group
Only Straddler In The Village 12 years, 4 months ago
Santo Domingo, Dominican Republic in the house!
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