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OkCupid Survivor Group 12 years, 4 months agoI talked with one chick on the phone/text for a week, invited her out to my pad for a visit (just to hang out!), and suddenly she had a girlfriend and refused to speak to me. Weird. :|
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OkCupid Survivor Group 12 years, 4 months agoI’m not even sure why I joined. I just liked the quiz-things and thought “why not create a profile” and then this creepy French girl started messaging me because we were a perfect match or something but she was weird and standoffish and persistent and so then I left. :(
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Shystraddlers 12 years, 4 months ago
I was really shy as a kid. I’ve changed a lot in the past decade or so, but only in person. On the internet, I am as shy as I was when I was when I used to bring books to playdates. Why is that?
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i should think it would be the other way around (that’s how it is for some of us). still shy in person, but more outgoing online.
are you nervous about the ease of rejection by anonymous peeps or being ignored? i’ve found that to be a problem online. i interact more or less as i would in person, but some people have very rude/inconsiderate ways…[Read more]
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Yeah, it doesn’t really make sense to me, either. I guess I’m afraid of being ignored, maybe? It’s like, I wish I could strike up conversations with people online, but I don’t even know how. I think I’ve developed a methodology for dealing with others in person–strategies for breaking the ice, being comfortable as myself, ways of handling it when…[Read more]
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bringing books to playdates! that’s the cutest thing ever.
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If only I could think of a response to a girl telling me I’m cute, but alas, I’m too shy ;-)
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Ok, so I need some input here.. I’ve recently ( two months or so) gotten into a relationship with a wonderful woman, whom I love. We went into this knowing that I’ll be going off to grad school at the end of July. She initiated intimacy knowing this. We spent a good few weeks spending most of our free time together, but in the past week she’s…[Read more]
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I was in a 7 month long distance relationship and all I can say is it really takes a toll on you. As much as I loved my ex it’s a lot to deal with and kind of sucks when no one can see her and only hear about your fights on skype etc. I think long distance relationships are just when you have to coz you love the other person so much you don’t have…[Read more]
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that totally happened to me too! we were chatting and it was going well and then she was like, oh, I have a girlfriend, see ya.