Ugh, Dany that’s really rough. Unfortunately I don’t have any advice but I just wanted to say that I’m sending you good queer vibes and I wish you luck on your job search!

I just recently started dressing like this as well. The only difference is briefs, but boxers are great, too. I didn’t even consider how this would affect my employment opportunities (I’m going to college in the Fall; I’m getting tons of shit for dressing like this in my small, redneck town.) I, too, will be super excited when gender identity pops…[Read more]

It probably depends on the area, but you’re a lot more likely to find more queer-friendly jobs in restaurants, hotels and other service sector jobs. I worked with a lot of conservative people but they didn’t give me any crap abut how I dressed or acted–they actually liked having a more masculine female-type person in the kitchen who wasn’t afraid…[Read more]