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Caitlin posted an update in the group
pdx autostraddlers 12 years, 3 months agoMy God do we suck. What is everybody doing this weekend? Also, for photo opportunity purposes we should meet at Blow Pony this month and get a photo of us on the balcony. That way everyone knows its P town.
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Paramecium posted an update in the group
Fencestraddlers 12 years, 4 months agoOut of curiosity, does anyone else here feel a kind of different type of attraction towards a person depending on their gender? It’s definitely attraction, but it’s almost like an alternative mindset (in my own experience). Am I alone on this? Will this get me kicked out of the bisexual club? Honestly, though.
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you wouldn’t be kicked out of my club, i absolutely agree. to me, not only sexual attraction, but love feels different with different genders
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Yes.
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Yes to “different attractions to different genders,” not yes to “getting kicked out of the bisexual club.”
I get what you mean, though, about feeling guilt that you clearly do see gender despite being bisexual. It’s one of the reasons why I don’t identify as pan.
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This. I do see gender, and I especially see gender expression. I think it’s a good thing. Lots of people have issues/feelings about gender, and even if its not, its still a big factor in their lives. I think it’s good to be able to recognise that, especially for people whose gender/gender expression isn’t recognised by others.
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Rose posted an update in the group
Fencestraddlers 12 years, 4 months agoLook up “sapiosexual” on Urban Dictionary, I don’t know if I’ve met a word that describes me better.
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Mareika posted an update in the group
Fencestraddlers 12 years, 4 months agothis feels sad, but true, guys:
http://www.robynochs.com/writing/essays/biphobia_short.html-
Agreed. :/
I keep intending to make a shirt with a big ‘B’ on it to wear to Pride, to increase our visibility. But every year, I forget until it’s too late.-
makes me glad autostraddle exists :)
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Yeah it would have been nice to see more bi shirts at pride, though I wore my “card-carrying bisexual” button.
Especially I saw some lesbian wearing a “bi now, gay later” shirt. Ugh.
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discospider posted an update in the group
pdx autostraddlers 12 years, 4 months agoCaitlin, the site is being weird again and not letting me reply to your last update. I think we totally should do a meetup, I recommend sooner than later though, as I may be moving in September. I’m not sure yet! Do we have any underage folks in this group? Do you guys want to go to Gaycation this month?
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Let us say Gaycation for now. When is that? this weekend or next? IDK. Where are you moving?
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It’s usually the 3rd Saturday, so this month it would be the 16th. I’m probably moving to Eugene, still figuring it all out. Blahhh.
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so I will probably be at gaycation. I will either be in a pink collard shirt cuz I will be coming from a wedding or my legalize gay T shirt. You can’t really miss me as I am blond, at almost six feet.
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:( I was sick this weekend, and didn’t end up going out. Sorry I didn’t mention it on here sooner!
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that is OK because I was busy getting fucked by the scappoose police. If I had not been giving someone a ride home, they would have towed my car. Me and Scappoose are now in a bitter divorce. So they took my license as well and I would have been stranded in effing Scappoose. Made a friend though.
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Ugh, way shitty!
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Fencestraddlers 12 years, 4 months agoHey hey,
Just started this tumblr to raise pride amongst us fence-straddlers: bi-pride.tumblr.com
Inclusive of everyone who not monosexual, so pop over and say hi!-
I followed you!
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Thank you!
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Caitlin posted an update in the group
pdx autostraddlers 12 years, 4 months agoIDEA: what if we all get an AS t shirt and meet at a bar/coffee shop depending on how many minors we have and have a party. If we all got the T shirt we would be a) really cool and b) easily identifiable, and c) helping out AS. Since we are all super motivated to meet up we could make the meet date far far away like August or September. Thoughts?
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I like this idea! Especially since I just ordered an AS shirt. I just wish I had more money so I could’ve gotten multiple and then I could leave one the way it was and then cut up the others into cool and fashionable designs.
But yes. Lets do this!
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Rose posted an update in the group
Fencestraddlers 12 years, 4 months agoRegardless of how you identify, what do people think of this? http://www.thescavenger.net/glb/bisexuality-does-not-reinforce-the-gender-binary-39675.html In the article, the author explains why she identifies as bi rather than pan or something else. I personally feel like a lot of this resonates me in terms of why “bisexual” has always fit me…[Read more]
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Avery posted an update in the group
Fencestraddlers 12 years, 4 months agoI found a really cheering sticker on an escalator the other day: it said “Les bi existent; la biphobie aussi” which means “Bisexuals exist; biphobia, too”. I felt a bit more included.
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Mareika posted an update in the group
Fencestraddlers 12 years, 4 months agohas any encountered parents who do not believe that bisexuality exists? the other day my mother told me that people who identify as bisexual are hurting the gay rights movement. because there’s no way you can be born bisexual. SHWAT.
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My parents didn’t initially believe *I* was bi but they definitely believe in bisexuals in general (and they’ve come around about my sexuality, too). I’m sorry you’re dealing with that. It really enrages me when people say bisexuality doesn’t exist. I found out a lot of my gay guy friends think women can be bisexual but men can’t, and it…[Read more]
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Mine are more of the “everyone’s a bit bisexual, why do you have to make a fuss” school.
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Haha, we do suck. Do you guys want to go to Crave this month? My friends and I are definitely going.
Imma try to make it. I am the tall blonde. I guess I will wear a legalize gay t shirt, if its clean. Anyway, I answer to Caitlin.