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cindy posted an update in the group
Femme Straddlers 12 years, 5 months agoI made this group coz I often feel like the only femme in the village when I go out. So I love to be reassured that I’m not the only girly girl out there and not the only one who faces: “you’re too pretty to be gay” “or no you’re not.” when I tell someone I like ladies.
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I KNOW RIGHT, I can like to coordinate my eyeliner to my sundress and still like teh ladies! And the too pretty argument, UGH UGH UGH. You’re too ugly to be straight.
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One of the best compliments I ever got was from a butch who noticed that I coordinated my eyeliner to my nail polish and the accent color in my scarf. Fear now, folk who appreciate this are out there!
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“you’re too pretty to be gay” is the WORST. Gaydom is what ugly women do (beause they can’t find a man)? Um, no.
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augh, this drives me mad every time someone tells me this. my best friend’s parents actually think it’s just a phase specifically because i’m “too pretty” to like women. what kind of logic is that? fffff get out and shut the door when you leave.
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I’ve had gay men say it to me, I didn’t even know what to say…
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hey, im in the same boat, the “too pretty” thing is a popular come back if i tell someone im gay but theres also the “aw, such a waste” – i wana say , wtf?? to most of those ppl but i hate confrontation and just sorta roll with the punches. i needa get a back bone installed! lol
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Oh my god, my old boss (who is female!!!!) once told me it was ‘such a waste’ that Portia de Rossi is gay. I just kind of gaped at her, but I wish I’d asked her what the hell she meant, because I never understand that crap.
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but in all honesty, I think we’ve all secretly thought the same about a straight girl :P
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I’m glad to know I’m not the only one who worries about the way I dress affecting whether or not people believe that I’m not attracted to men. I mean, I hope I’m never self-centered enough to think I’m the “only one who…” anything, but still, nice to see confirmation.
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that’s coz femmes are hidden in masses of straight girls, tis why I had to create the group.
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CATS 12 years, 5 months ago
Does anybody else’s feline acquaintance (they sure as hell don’t like to be called “pets”) eat their food with their paws?
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Yes, and drinks water that way. She dips her paw in water and licks it off her paw.
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One of my cats does that too – it’s cute until he starts dipping his paws into my glass
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sometimes my cat does that right after she’s clearly been in the litter box. and she’s usually drinking out of my girlfriend’s bedside table water. my girlfriend freaks out and calls it poop water, and i laugh and laugh.
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My cat Petey (also my avatar on here) drinks this way! I thought he was the only one, since none of our other cats do this.
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Mix posted an update in the group
my cat made me join this group, she is very demanding…
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they can be like that. we understand.
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Erika posted an update in the group
there is a sticker of a cat with a mustache on my laptop. i feel so cool.
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you are!
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thank you! YOU’RE SO COOL TOO!
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