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Fencestraddlers 12 years, 3 months agoRegardless of how you identify, what do people think of this? http://www.thescavenger.net/glb/bisexuality-does-not-reinforce-the-gender-binary-39675.html In the article, the author explains why she identifies as bi rather than pan or something else. I personally feel like a lot of this resonates me in terms of why “bisexual” has always fit me…[Read more]
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Fencestraddlers 12 years, 3 months agoI found a really cheering sticker on an escalator the other day: it said “Les bi existent; la biphobie aussi” which means “Bisexuals exist; biphobia, too”. I felt a bit more included.
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Fencestraddlers 12 years, 3 months agohas any encountered parents who do not believe that bisexuality exists? the other day my mother told me that people who identify as bisexual are hurting the gay rights movement. because there’s no way you can be born bisexual. SHWAT.
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My parents didn’t initially believe *I* was bi but they definitely believe in bisexuals in general (and they’ve come around about my sexuality, too). I’m sorry you’re dealing with that. It really enrages me when people say bisexuality doesn’t exist. I found out a lot of my gay guy friends think women can be bisexual but men can’t, and it…[Read more]
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Mine are more of the “everyone’s a bit bisexual, why do you have to make a fuss” school.
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Kinky Straddlers 12 years, 4 months agoWell just to get the talk started in this group…what is one of your favorite parts of the kink community?
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I really dig the body and age diversity of the kink community I’m apart of. It is really fun to have older mentors and talk about what it was like being a kinky queer in the 60s and 70s.
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The infinite variety of the human imagination, not to mention their ingenuity.
(I have a thing for people with rare/unusual fetishes)
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@femmesk yeah it always amazes me when I go to leather markets and I see cute elderly couples shuffling along in leather ad latex.
For me I’m a sucker for fetish fashion.Since I’m a college student I can’t really afford anything, but I love looking at fetish gear and wearing them when I can.I really like Victorian era clothing and corsets…*Drools*
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Fencestraddlers 12 years, 4 months agohomoflexible. I like that. gender is just such a very minor detail for me. cheers for straddling fences. being bridges. hopscotching the gap.
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Fencestraddlers 12 years, 4 months agobi-dykes unite!?!
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or, you know, whatever (non)label you wish to use.
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Glad I’m not the only one who thinks “dyke” is not exclusive to lesbians but applies to all women-loving women. I got five or six 0-star ratings on AfterEllen for expressing that.
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I hate afterellen forums, it’s full of a lot of angry people for some reason.
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Yeah, I agree – and I don’t understand why. But the biphobia in particular has been out of control lately.
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I’ve never ventured over to the aftellen forums, but I love the word dyke. to me, it means a strong, confident lady-lovin’ lady, regardless of other labels…also, this comic changed my life in terms of stopping my own internalized bi-phobia: http://liliane.comicgenesis.com/
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