today i feel a bit stronger…really it is a coming out process for me..and even if it bothers some people…too bad…i am in a unique situation, i can be honest with my sweetheart…i can be out in my work world…and i feel like i crossed over some threshold…and now that the veil is lifted, well it is out of the bag…etc…hmmm what an…[Read more]

Calgary Straddler

wow…just wandered through 300 plus comments on ” left my husband ” story…two in particular were so angry about “fake” lesbians…the catagorizing was so sad to see….i love, i lust, i try to figure it out…still trying, but loving kindness is way more important to me than labels ever were…that said, i am hyper-aware of bait and…[Read more]