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I would like some advice on coming out to my roommate. I have no clue whether she’s homophobic or not. She’s pretty religious, and I think probably conservative (we haven’t really talked politics). I’ve brought up gay things/people before and she literally had no reaction, so I don’t know if that means she doesn’t care or didn’t want to get into a…[Read more]
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In my experience, homophobic people normally offer their hate on a silver platter. I knew I shouldn’t come out to a coworker within 45 minutes of arriving at her place for the first time. We were watching some movie and as soon as two girls kissed onscreen (briefly), she wasted no time in telling me how disgusting she thought lesbians were. Glad I…[Read more]
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Thanks for the advice.
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Brianna posted on the forum topic What was the last documentary you watched? in the group
We Love Documentaries: 11 years, 11 months agoI recently watched The Pixar Story and The Parking Lot Movie. They’re both worth watching and they’re on Netflix instant… actually, that’s true of every documentary posted here so far!
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So, women are confusing. I apologize in advance for this likely very long-winded and complicated query…
I have been “seeing” (not even sure if this an accurate term) this girl for a little over a month now. We met at a gay bar and we started out as just going out together, which later turned into that plus hanging out together ie: watching a…[Read more]
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“Ouch” is what I thought when reading this. I think she likes you, but probably not as potential girlfriend material. I think you might eventually fall into the FWB category. But you need to accept this friendship for what it is- a friendship. Stop putting so much time and energy into this girl and find someone who is more reliable and more into…[Read more]
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Thanks for the reply – you’re probably right. It just sucks lol.
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it does suck! boo! When you find a girlfriend you will realize it wasn’t meant to be :-)
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TimeInvariant posted on the forum topic What was the last documentary you watched? in the group
We Love Documentaries: 11 years, 11 months ago“Moog”.
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Squamish, British Columbia… and I don’t think I’ve seen a lesbian since I got here (with the exception of looking in the mirror, of course.) It’s a little suffocating.
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Morgan posted an update in the group
We Love Documentaries 11 years, 11 months agoI just watched The Christine Jorgenson Story–it’s about the very first Transwoman. It was awesome because I’m so into LGBT rights but I feel like sometimes the Ts get left out. It was really cool to get a better perspective on that! Seriously great documentary.
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So, I want to be out to my floormates/roommate especially, but I’m not quite sure how to have the “I’m not out to my family, so don’t say anything to them” conversation. Is it fair to come out to my roommate and then ask her to keep it quiet?
I think I may just be paranoid; she doesn’t ever talk to my family, but they might visit this winter. I…[Read more]-
If you’re living in a city where it’s pretty much accepted and she seems like a good friend I’d say go for it, I mean logically if she’s nice she’s not going to care or mind.
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I would just say exactly what you just said. Don’t be dramatic about it, just “BTW my family might visit this winter. Please don’t mention the gay thing to them. Haha!” As long as she’s a nice girl, she will respect that it’s up to you to decide when your parents find out and not up to her.
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