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Shystraddlers 11 years, 8 months ago
guys i’m super shy, so i’m going to hide behind the power of the link to my fitness blog for queer women (and soon to FTM and MTFs!) http://fitnessforqueers.tumblr.com/
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Straddler-on-Straddler advice 11 years, 8 months ago
I think I’m going to post this question in a few groups to try to maximize advice… Please comment if you have any thoughts!
I’m a queer cis femme college grad who just started seeing a female-bodied genderqueer person who goes by the pronouns they/their/them. I’m doing my best to get used to using these pronouns, which I consistently do when…[Read more]
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honestly, you’ve answered your own question. really, do just go up to your partner and ask. they’re the only one who’ll know the right answer, and it won’t seem like you’re getting ahead of yourself at all.
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thanks for your advice! i know it’s pretty obvious, but i just didn’t want to… you know… seem like i was falling too hard/too fast by suggesting that i’m talking about them ALL THE TIME. but i think i will just go ahead and ask next time we’re together. thanks again!
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don’t worry about it! if anything, they’ll be flattered that you’re 1) willing to talk about them with your friends (seems like a small gesture, but it means a lot) and 2) concerned about being respectful and doing right by them. you really can’t go wrong here, so go for it!
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CATS 11 years, 9 months ago
Alright lesbians, import question. I had a roommate for the last 2 1/2 years, and my
rookie had a cat. I’ve relocated recently and brought my cat along, who lives with the rookie’s cat since she was a kitten. I work long hours, and noe she is all by herself. Does I need to rescue another kitty so she has a friend? Will she be lonely?!-
My roomie* had a cat
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Is there enough space for two cats? Can you afford it? Do all other practicalities of having two cats work out? If yes: I’d say, go for it! It sounds like your kitty would probably enjoy the company! (And do ask your local shelter for a cat who’d do well with another cat, cause not all of them do.)
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How much space do two cats need? I am in a one bedroom apartment. But the other things, yes.
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That depends on the house, of course. Can they go outside? Are they allowed in the other rooms of the house? Can and are they allowed to roam the hallway etc.?
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Well, keep in mind that some cats do not get along with eachother if they are adopted at seperate times. I got a cat ten years ago and then got another two years later. They totally hate eachother. Sometimes they get very territorial so getting another cat might not be a good idea. Try making a seriously awesome space for your kitty which is tall…[Read more]
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Lindsey posted an update in the group
CATS 11 years, 9 months ago
I’m very excited I hope to get a ragdoll kitten soon.
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Rose posted an update in the group
Animestraddle 11 years, 9 months agoAny Rumiko Takahashi fans here? I finished Maison Ikkoku a few months ago, loved it, and I’m looking for more. I had a friend who got me some Inuyasha manga back in high school but I never got super into it, though maybe I would now. Mermaid Saga sounds really interesting.
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I’m a huge Takahashi fan since the mid-90s. Mermaid Saga is super good read. I love Urusei Yatsura and Ranma as well, but Maison Ikkoku is her best mix of drama and comedy out of her series (with maybe One-Pound Gospael as a close Second). Mermaid Saga is really good and surprisingly dark for her. Also her Rumic Theater One-shots are great and…[Read more]
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Rice posted an update in the group
um. uh. wait. ok. wait. what was the question? ok. um. yeah. wait. what? 11 years, 9 months ago
Hi, my name is Rice and I’m an introverted awkward queer looking for fellow awkward queers to befriend ^_^
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Ally posted an update in the group
Shystraddlers 11 years, 9 months ago
Hey there, everyone. Well, it took me ages to make an account here as I’m more prone to reading rather than posting… looks like I found the right group for my inaugural comment, huh? Anyway, recently my lack of queer acquaintances has been bumming me out, so I thought, to the internet! And here I am. Only now I’m not sure exactly what to do. Eh,…[Read more]
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