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Michelle posted an update in the group
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Okay, so I shouldn’t be this scared coming out on freaking Autostraddle but I am because…I am bisexual, and I’m sort of concerned I’m going to be on the receiving end of “why are you trying to come out as bi on a LESBIAN website?” biphobia. Anyway, I’ve made some tiny coming out baby steps last year (working it in to relative conversations with…[Read more]
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You should just go to a meeting, even if you don’t have much to say and it’s awkward at first. What’s to lose? Don’t feel out of place or like you don’t belong because you’re bi–I’ve been out as bi for 10 yrs now (I’m 26) and I know that even when I’m with a straight boyfriend, my life and experiences are still different from a straight person’s…[Read more]
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I went to PFLAG meetings at university because I felt I needed gay identity and to know other gay people. They were so friendly, welcoming, and nice. So did you end up going to any meetings?
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I went to the drop-in centre at my school a couple of times. Even though no one knew how I identified (because no one can really ask), it was awkward because people seemed to know each other and I was out of place. I’m hoping to go to queer orientation week next year, which I was too afraid/discouraged by rain to attend this year.
I’ve gotten…[Read more]
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How about meeting girls online for dates or for friendship only? Sometimes I meet lesbian couples for friendship and maybe they can introduce me to their single friends; plus I get to know more queer people. I belonged to several dating sites before I met my wife. I just looked up to see if there were lots of girls who like girls in Toronto or…[Read more]
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cartmel posted an update in the group
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I know that I’m gay, but I’ve been sexually involved with men, and I’m even hetero-married though we have been separated from some time. I am saving up for a divorce, we are on speaking terms and right now $300 to drop on divorce forms at LegalZoom seems so postponable. If there was like, a negative star lesbian rating to give me, I’d get it. I’ve…[Read more]
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Hey, I’d say that you have permission to call yourself a lesbian lesbian if you feel like one. You don’t have to apologize for a heterosexual past. Sexuality is more convoluted than a lot of people think, and there are many people (myself included) who feel that they are no longer comfortable in their assumed sexual identity and need a new “label”…[Read more]
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Wow, thanks for that reply. I like the ‘future intentions’ way of looking at identity. Coolness! Now I can skip off into the sunset! And thanks again!
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Lydia posted an update in the group
Baltimore / D.C. Autostraddlers! 11 years, 9 months agoHey group! Wondering if anyone wants to go see Pariah sometime soon at the E st cinema.
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When is sometime soon?
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Whenever someone replied that they wanted to go or I couldn’t wait any longer to see it. How’s this weekend?
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I def want to see Pariah, though I don’t know if I can make it this weekend. might I suggest a night showing sometime next week?
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Yeah I am free most nights except Tuesday and Wednesday nights. So whenever is fine.
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I’ll have to pass on this, I’m out of town untilthe first of feb, but I hope you ladies have fun
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Genderstraddlers 11 years, 9 months agoChrissie, gender identity and assigned birth sex are not always the same and that is quandry to which transgender people find themselves. Most people don’t even think about whetther their bodies properly represent their inner gender, for transpeople it is a daily struggle to attempt to socialize and self identify when we feel alien to our own…[Read more]
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sean posted an update in the group
Genderstraddlers 11 years, 9 months agoI’ve been thinking a lot about gender lately. What a amazingly mind fucky topic to think about.
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Sydney posted an update in the group
Baltimore / D.C. Autostraddlers! 11 years, 9 months agoI’ll be in DC this summer
Where do I even begin?
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