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Straddler-on-Straddler advice 11 years, 10 months ago
so i moved to London like 4 months ago and have only been able to make one gay friend, how did you find yours? Everyone says to do it online but it’s really difficult that way. If I talk to girls at a lesbian club or night i find they think i’m hitting on them. what should i do? where did you find your bros?
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Meghan posted an update in the group
Baltimore / D.C. Autostraddlers! 11 years, 11 months agoHello all! I’m also pretty new to DC, but I was wondering if anyone might be interested in a last minute meet-up on Saturday? There’s a roller derby game at the Armory which should be a blast. If anyone’s interested, let me know!
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Clearly I missed that Saturday meet up, but if you want to do one in the future, I’m down.
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Alissa posted an update in the group
So i have this professor who’s super attractive, nice, and has a great body. We talk almost everyday. She is gay and we have talked about everything with our lives etc. Here is my problem, im starting to have feelings if not already for her. Sometimes i wanna tell her how i feel and then other times i don’t.
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i’d refrain if it were me sounds like the consequences are too great, you’d have to see her all the time, if she likes you she’ll give you signals. try and avoid her or try meet a new girl?
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Yeah, true. I’ m not going to do anything. Shes a good person to talk to for advice. I won’t be seeing her for a month since i have winter break.
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I second refrain…until you graduate. If you two really have a bond, keep in touch and see what happens. :)
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Ya thats pretty much what i did. Lol. We still talk so who knows what will happen.
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You probably did the right thing, but coming from someone who is ALWAYS attracted to powerful/intelligent women (especially when they are gay) professors, I totally feel for you.
I got propositioned by one of my professors that I had that kind of “friendship” with, but both of us decided against it because we would be involved in future classes…[Read more]
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Lindsey posted an update in the group
I am planning on going to this Christmas party that my coworker is throwing, but it’s a formal and I’m a little tired of wearing dresses (especially in the winter – can you say brrr?!). I told them I was going to wear a lady tux, but having said that, I’m not exactly sure where I can rent one. Any ideas?
P.s. I love in Iowa, so keep that in mind lol.
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blueinthefaceangel posted an update in the group
hey guys I need some help looking for a cheap and decent place to stay in the NYC for Jan.I’m interning there fr the mounth and I just can’t find a good place to stay…Help!
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Paige replied to the forum topic Christmas present for the significant other in the group
I got you, grrrl. It depends, really. How long have you been together (aka level of seriousness??) As a butch/androgynous/queer lady myself, I can only tell you what I hope my girlfriend got me haha. There are two […]
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mandi started the forum topic Christmas present for the significant other in the group
Christmas is coming quicker than I anticipated and I still need to find a gift for the girlfriend! She is a practical girl and leans towards the androgynous side. Any suggestions!?
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My friend’s dad got really mad at a another friend of ours – to the point of yelling at her in a restaurant – about some things she was pointing out that he didn’t understand, and I was wondering if there were any articles y’all know of (or if you could explain it well yourself) about:
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Willis posted an update in the group
Political Straddlers 11 years, 11 months agoI have so many thoughts about so many things that I don’t even know where to start. How about, for those in the U.S. that the Republican candidates are talking about such outrageous things as military strikes in Iran and reinstating waterboarding. Proud to be an American?
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Sounds like most people across the board think they’re terrible, so I’m not worried, yet.
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You would be amazed at how many conservative voters believe these are perfectly logical and just ideas, especially because of the influence of Fox News. Fox has incredible pull among vast segments of the US populace–their ability to get away with journalistic murder makes for great entertainment, even if it certainly doesn’t come within spitting…[Read more]
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Hmmm that’s a really good question. Unfortch, no matter how you approach another lez she might think you are hitting on her. I would try maybe joining an athletic team, speaking to girls in bars/clubs, maybe scouting out a queer bookstore or a cafe in a queer neighborhood. Good luck!
The LGBT organization in my area has groups for various age groups and interests. You might see if you can find anything like that. I recently moved to a new area, and I’ve made several gay friends through that.