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Paramecium posted an update in the group Fencestraddlers 12 years, 4 months ago

Out of curiosity, does anyone else here feel a kind of different type of attraction towards a person depending on their gender? It’s definitely attraction, but it’s almost like an alternative mindset (in my own experience). Am I alone on this? Will this get me kicked out of the bisexual club? Honestly, though.

Mareika replied 12 years, 3 months ago

you wouldn’t be kicked out of my club, i absolutely agree. to me, not only sexual attraction, but love feels different with different genders
Rose replied 12 years, 3 months ago

Yes.
- Rose replied 12 years, 3 months ago
  
  Yes to “different attractions to different genders,” not yes to “getting kicked out of the bisexual club.”
  
  I get what you mean, though, about feeling guilt that you clearly do see gender despite being bisexual. It’s one of the reasons why I don’t identify as pan.
  - evie replied 12 years, 3 months ago
    
    This. I do see gender, and I especially see gender expression. I think it’s a good thing. Lots of people have issues/feelings about gender, and even if its not, its still a big factor in their lives. I think it’s good to be able to recognise that, especially for people whose gender/gender expression isn’t recognised by others.

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