The Basics




New York, NY

About Me

About Me

Hey, everyone! I’m a nerdy academic, femme-y-ish queer, intersex activist, & peanut butter m&ms addict.

I’m figuring stuff out. I want love and acceptance and authenticity. I don’t want to just live my life – I want to be alive.

Check All That Apply

Gay, Queer, Genderqueer, Other


Be yourself and be nice.


Looking For

Queer Friends in my Area, Queer Friends on the Internet, Business Contacts

Relationship Status

In a Relationship


Smart; validating; will cook yummy things for you


Wake up really late; require chocolate at impractical times; procrastinator

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What I Like

Favorite Books

Harriet the Spy (Louise Fitzhugh); Everything Is Illuminated (Jonathan Safran Foer); Harry Potter series (J. K. Rowling); The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time (Mark Haddon); The Hobbit (J. R. R. Tolkien); Rosalind Franklin: Dark Lady of DNA (Brenda Baker)

Favorite Queer Books

Inferno (Eileen Myles); Stone Butch Blues (Leslie Feinberg); The Nearest Exit May Be Behind You (S. Bear Bergman); Doris Anthology (Cindy Crabtree); Dear John, I Love Jane: Women Write About Leaving Men for Women (Candace Walsh and Laura Andre); Live Through This: On Creativity and Self-Destruction (Sabrina Chapdjeva)

Favorite Movies

Dead Poet’s Society; The Breakfast Club; But I’m A Cheerleader; Imagine Me & You; Jurassic Park

Favorite Documentaries

The Corporation; Good Hair

Favorite TV Shows

Strangers With Candy; Arrested Development; Father Ted; Downton Abbey; Lip Service; Sifl & Olly; Monk; Tim & Eric Awesome Show Great Job; Dr. Who; Veronica Mars; Bones; Major Crimes

Favorite Music

Metric; Le Tigre; Uh Huh Her; Feist; Scared of Chaka; The Thermals; Go Sailor; Rainer Maria; Huggy Bear; MEN; The Smoking Popes; Radiohead; The Police; Royksopp; The New Pornographers; The Shins

Favorite Sandwich

Cheese, tomato, and lettuce or basil on Italian bread.

Favorite Thing on

Coming out stories; First Person pieces

Favorite Writers

Jonathan Safran Foer; Eileen Myles