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Fencestraddlers 12 years, 2 months agoI can recommend this thread at feministe for a bit of hater-free sharing of bi personal histories: http://www.feministe.us/blog/archives/2011/08/04/i-like-boys-but-also-girls-but-also-boys/
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That piece really annoyed me to no end.
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Why, out of interest?
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Way too much complaining in that particular piece…over nothing. I’ll get into details @ later when my brain is less tired (only had 5 hrs sleep two days in a row).
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Ok…
From what I gathered, the majority of the women (including the author of the post) are in happy, loving relationships with men and there’s just so much…angst over it. I felt like I was reading the diary of a insecure teenager.If folks weren’t angsting over their feelings for women (which can either be resolved by making the…[Read more]
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Underage Straddlers (in lieu of an inevitably more creative name) 12 years, 2 months ago
Is there anyone here from the Warrington/Manchester area?
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Underage Straddlers (in lieu of an inevitably more creative name) 12 years, 3 months ago
Anyone here from the NYC area? Or Boston/Phoenix.
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Fencestraddlers 12 years, 3 months agoOut of curiosity, does anyone else here feel a kind of different type of attraction towards a person depending on their gender? It’s definitely attraction, but it’s almost like an alternative mindset (in my own experience). Am I alone on this? Will this get me kicked out of the bisexual club? Honestly, though.
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you wouldn’t be kicked out of my club, i absolutely agree. to me, not only sexual attraction, but love feels different with different genders
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Yes.
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Yes to “different attractions to different genders,” not yes to “getting kicked out of the bisexual club.”
I get what you mean, though, about feeling guilt that you clearly do see gender despite being bisexual. It’s one of the reasons why I don’t identify as pan.
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This. I do see gender, and I especially see gender expression. I think it’s a good thing. Lots of people have issues/feelings about gender, and even if its not, its still a big factor in their lives. I think it’s good to be able to recognise that, especially for people whose gender/gender expression isn’t recognised by others.
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Fencestraddlers 12 years, 3 months agoLook up “sapiosexual” on Urban Dictionary, I don’t know if I’ve met a word that describes me better.
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Fencestraddlers 12 years, 3 months agothis feels sad, but true, guys:
http://www.robynochs.com/writing/essays/biphobia_short.html-
Agreed. :/
I keep intending to make a shirt with a big ‘B’ on it to wear to Pride, to increase our visibility. But every year, I forget until it’s too late.-
makes me glad autostraddle exists :)
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Yeah it would have been nice to see more bi shirts at pride, though I wore my “card-carrying bisexual” button.
Especially I saw some lesbian wearing a “bi now, gay later” shirt. Ugh.
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Fencestraddlers 12 years, 3 months agoHey hey,
Just started this tumblr to raise pride amongst us fence-straddlers: bi-pride.tumblr.com
Inclusive of everyone who not monosexual, so pop over and say hi! - Load More