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TravelStraddle 11 years, 11 months agoGoing to Israel in January, any homogay travel advice?
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This is perhaps not as emotional as other questions, but I want to know whether other people would go to a gig alone. See, The Antlers are playing soon where I live and I heart them so I would love to see them, but none of my friends like them. Tickets are fairly cheap, so that’s not a problem. Would I stand out like the proverbial sore thumb if I…[Read more]
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As someone who’s been to a couple of gigs by myself I would suggest that you probably go for it. In my experience the queuing is normally the most awkward bit and yeah you can feel like you stick out a little if most other people are waiting in groups, but once the gig has started you don’t miss the company and in such a crowded space you…[Read more]
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Oh my gosh, I went to see the Antlers on the 9th. Alone. Did you end up going in the end?
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I didn’t because I’m an arse. I wish I had but I forgot to get a ticket and was then a ball of indecision. Were they amazing? I bet they were amazing.
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They really were amazing, but the crowd didn’t even attempt to get an encore – this upset me
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Hipsters. I often wonder why they even go to shows if they keep up the illusion of not enjoying anything.
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oh friends…I am recently out of a 4.5yr relationship and my gf started cultivating a thing with someone months before ending it with me. They have since consummated it, but apparently my ex “ended” it soon after as she feels she needs to be on her own. The crappy thing is, they still get to be “friends”, (and I’m pretty sure that stuff is…[Read more]
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That sounds terrible, hun. It’s always hard to see your ex in the scene – I keep running into a girl I was only seeing for a couple months. I can’t even imagine what you’re feeling.
It sounds like your ex is confused and probably pretty frightened – sounds like she’s scared of being alone.
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That sucks so hard! I don’t know how to make you feel better…but maybe knowing that your ex doesn’t have real feelings for this girl will help. If she’s the type of person who would do that to you than her depth of feeling is as shallow as a puddle and you are better off without her!
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TravelStraddle 11 years, 11 months agoHey, I’m an Aussie living in Denmark, I’ll be around til the end of January. I’d love to know what people think are absolutely must see places in Europe… at the moment I have plans to go to Berlin, Amsterdam, Vienna, Stockholm, Brussels / Ghent and Italy, but I would like to hear about other people’s experiences… oh and if you are in any of…[Read more]
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Amsterdam, is a definite must see, I loved living there and the free vibe! But I also lived in Ghent and really loved it, I find Brussels quite dirty tbh and unfriendly I don’t think there’s that much to see there, other than the Grand Place. Ghent is my most recommended city in Belgium. But I didn’t mind Antwerp it has great shopping and a few…[Read more]
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I was in Brussels for three days last December and loved it; it was one of my favourite cities, despite an expensive hostel bed which came without hot water.
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well, I’m a lil late but….hamburg should be on your list!and it’s not to far from danmark. also I really loved gothenburg.and vienna is quite pretty to look at:)
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hello there! can i please ask for some opinions on age differences? to elaborate, a really nice girl messaged me on ok cupid, saying she knows that she’s younger than i’m looking for, but she thinks we’ll get on. i’m 27, and she’s 22. i messaged back, saying she is too young, but seeing as she’s lovely (and newly out) does she want to meet for a…[Read more]
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for me that would be too big if an age gap. but i think that in lesbian relationships there is a higher chance of an age gap??
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Thanks for the advice Ami! It does seem like a lot… I’m worried. But I’m really struggling to meet girls my own age, I don’t know where they are! They must have set up their own wee lesbian circle some time ago. She’s graduated and everything, so she’s not a child, but… I don’t know. It’s not like I’m super mature, but I don’t want to be a…[Read more]
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I think the age gap would be more of an issue if say you were 21/22 and she was 16/17. When you get into your 20’s people see you more as an adult, and age gaps become less of a ‘OMG she’s how old?!’-you know what I mean? I guess it basically comes down to how the 2 of you feel about it, if it bothers either of you now then chances are it’s never…[Read more]
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She doesn’t seem bothered by the age gap. The only question I can think of is, are you bothered by it? Who cares what other people think… they’re probably just jelly.
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when I was 16 I went out with a girl 3.5years older than me. It never really bothered me or anyone else I think, not quite the same difference but your friends will get to know her and shouldn’t judge you for it. Why miss out a chance on something special?
Also this kind of makes me want to reopen my OKC, just a little bit.
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You guys rock. Reading your opinions and having a good old think, I have decided that who cares what other people think? A wee bit of an age disparity is just not a big deal. I’m not sure it’s going to work out with this particular girl, but given I keep on meeting youngsters this is all very relevant to my life just now, and I won’t panic over…[Read more]
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I’m 27 and my girlfriend is turning 21 in two weeks… once in awhile the age difference creates some issues, but for the most part I usually forget about it. She is pretty mature for her age, and I’m pretty immature… people always assume she’s 23-25 years old and that I’m 18-21 years old lol… either way, once you’re a grown up the age…[Read more]
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I think this isnt a major issue at all. My girlfriend just turned 32 and I am 21. We meet in school and she looks much younger than she is but when by the time I found out how old she was, I was already smitten. Initially we both thought the age gap would be a major issue but it really hasnt been. As a matter a fact (and maybe this is just me) I…[Read more]
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Pretty pissed because I work with my girlfriend and our boss has basically forbidden us to speak to each other at work (She’s a cook, I’m a waitress). He was such a douche about it. We don’t talk anymore than anyone else does at work. We never neglect our job duties to sit and have meaningful romantic conversations. I can’t help but feel like we’…[Read more]
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Yeah, that is utterly ridiculous. I would totally be looking for a new job too, if I were you. Your boss is a douche and I hope you manage to find a new job with twice the money and half the bullshit!
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I quit that shit and got a new job, a way cooler job with better pay and hours. So my ex-boss can stick that in his juicebox and suck it.
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