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so i moved to London like 4 months ago and have only been able to make one gay friend, how did you find yours? Everyone says to do it online but it’s really difficult that way. If I talk to girls at a lesbian club or night i find they think i’m hitting on them. what should i do? where did you find your bros?
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Hmmm that’s a really good question. Unfortch, no matter how you approach another lez she might think you are hitting on her. I would try maybe joining an athletic team, speaking to girls in bars/clubs, maybe scouting out a queer bookstore or a cafe in a queer neighborhood. Good luck!
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The LGBT organization in my area has groups for various age groups and interests. You might see if you can find anything like that. I recently moved to a new area, and I’ve made several gay friends through that.
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Alissa posted an update in the group
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So i have this professor who’s super attractive, nice, and has a great body. We talk almost everyday. She is gay and we have talked about everything with our lives etc. Here is my problem, im starting to have feelings if not already for her. Sometimes i wanna tell her how i feel and then other times i don’t.
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i’d refrain if it were me sounds like the consequences are too great, you’d have to see her all the time, if she likes you she’ll give you signals. try and avoid her or try meet a new girl?
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Yeah, true. I’ m not going to do anything. Shes a good person to talk to for advice. I won’t be seeing her for a month since i have winter break.
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I second refrain…until you graduate. If you two really have a bond, keep in touch and see what happens. :)
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Ya thats pretty much what i did. Lol. We still talk so who knows what will happen.
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You probably did the right thing, but coming from someone who is ALWAYS attracted to powerful/intelligent women (especially when they are gay) professors, I totally feel for you.
I got propositioned by one of my professors that I had that kind of “friendship” with, but both of us decided against it because we would be involved in future classes…[Read more]
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Lindsey posted an update in the group
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I am planning on going to this Christmas party that my coworker is throwing, but it’s a formal and I’m a little tired of wearing dresses (especially in the winter – can you say brrr?!). I told them I was going to wear a lady tux, but having said that, I’m not exactly sure where I can rent one. Any ideas?
P.s. I love in Iowa, so keep that in mind lol.
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hey guys I need some help looking for a cheap and decent place to stay in the NYC for Jan.I’m interning there fr the mounth and I just can’t find a good place to stay…Help!
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I got you, grrrl. It depends, really. How long have you been together (aka level of seriousness??) As a butch/androgynous/queer lady myself, I can only tell you what I hope my girlfriend got me haha. There are two […]
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mandi started the forum topic Christmas present for the significant other in the group
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Christmas is coming quicker than I anticipated and I still need to find a gift for the girlfriend! She is a practical girl and leans towards the androgynous side. Any suggestions!?
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My friend’s dad got really mad at a another friend of ours – to the point of yelling at her in a restaurant – about some things she was pointing out that he didn’t understand, and I was wondering if there were any articles y’all know of (or if you could explain it well yourself) about:
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TravelStraddle 11 years, 11 months agoHeyo! I know this group doesn’t get much action, but let’s change that! I’m looking for a travel partner in Thailand next March-April and would love to travel with another Straddler.
Who I am: 22 y/o English teacher, originally from the States. Well-travelled, mellow, outgoing, outdoorsy. Travel interests: Weird food, hiking, biking, spending…[Read more]-
hey, I’m going to be heading in that direction next year (South East Asia is about as far as I have narrowed it down in my planning, starting with Bali in February). I was in Thailand briefly last year but spent all my time in one spot so am keen to go back and experience a bit more.
I’m 27, Aussie, well travelled, and have pretty similar…[Read more]-
awesome! What part of Thailand did you stay in? I’m thinking of hanging in Chiang Mai if I end up travelling solo, but am really keen on exploring more of the island areas. If you end up making it out there, holla.
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I stayed on Koh Tao off the eastern coast, definitely a dive mecca. I’m looking at the islands off the west coast for next year, looks like the better side for climbing.
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Hey, thought I’d shout out, see if you’re still planning your trip. I’m in Lombok now and just thinking ahead a little, trying to figure out where to head next.
I’m still def keen to do some climbing in Thailand, and think it would be better with a buddy.
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I’m heading to Southeast Asia this summer from the end of may to the end of August. I’m going to be volunteering at a school in Cambodia from around May 30-July 22. I’m hoping to explore Cambodia quite a bit on the weekends and then after my time there, I’m figuring out where to travel. I’m going with the less is more mentality on this and…[Read more]
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