I wish I could selectively erase parts of my memory, because I found my some of my dad’s porn when I was a teenager, and apparently he likes lesbian porn. AAAUUUGH! I really didn’t need to know that!
And to make things more awesome, he didn’t speak to me for several years after I came out. So watching “lesbian” porn is ok, but having a parental…[Read more]

that is really awkward.
but he could think of Portia instead.

Something very similar happened to me with a friend/co-worker a year or so back. At the time, we were working at a pizza place. Ya know what my response was? I grabbed a piece of ham from the make line, and slung it straight at his face. It hit him square in the forehead. And better yet, it stuck there for a second and slowly slid down, like we…[Read more]

i don’t know why so many straight dudes feel that it’s appropriate to tell us stuff like that. it has happened to me before and it boggles the mind.

I don’t want to dash your hopes, but she may just not be interested. I know a lot of women who would rather make excuses than actually just tell someone that they aren’t interested, so it’s worth considering that too. If that’s not the case though, I suggest trying to just hang out with her in a general context, without necessarily the pressure of…[Read more]

I’m with @discospider… she probably just doesn’t want to ruin the friendship by saying no. But props to you for having the guts to ask her out, perhaps ask her to join you in a group thing where she can bring friends too, something like that? Thenyou’ll def be able to see if you’re getting a friend zone vibe.

So, I had a feeling she was into me, because she texts me at least once a week – without me texting her or anything. I knew it wasn’t the date nervousness thing because I’ve asked her to cook outs, bbqs, the beach etc. She lives so close that it was weird like – what the heck is up? So I pressed her this week because I was leaving on vacay and

I…[Read more]