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Fencestraddlers 11 years, 10 months agoI’m a 3…(is there a 3.5??) but things have shifted as I’ve become more comfortable with being visibly bi/queer and sleeping with women on the reg and not just as an occasional whim.
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Fencestraddlers 11 years, 10 months agois there a better word for homoflexible?
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kinsey 4 maybe?
also, you’re awesome, I’ve never met someone who identifies on the gayer side of the spectrum without declaring themself full-on gay (not that there’s anything wrong with where ANYONE falls, etc etc, but it’s cool to find people who occupy the less common parts of it)
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are mostly-homos rare? do you think most fencestraddlers are kinsey 3?
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most fencestraddlers I’ve met are between primarily hetero and perfectly in the middle, though that could be a result of how much easier it is to find hetero action (sheer numbers, etc)
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It’s a lot easier to find heterosexual action purely based on numbers, and also because a lot of lesbians don’t want to date bisexual women, whereas straight men are usually fine with it (although some are a little TOO fine with it and for annoying reasons). From what I’ve heard from bi men, it tends to be the reverse with them – gay men are…[Read more]
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Most I’ve met tend to be kinsey 1 or 2s…don’t run into many who were 3 and up.
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Most of the bis I meet IRL tend to be straight-leaning (1 or 2), most of the ones I see on this site tend to be gay-leaning (4 or 5). In both I feel weird for being pretty 50/50!
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I’m definitely on the “gayer side of the spectrum” but continue to identify as bi, not lesbian. Kinsey scale I’m probably a 5, but continue to recognize my attraction to men.
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To me, ”heteroflexible” and ”homoflexible” always implied kinsey 1 and 5 respectively – someone who is predominantly one way but will occasionally dip into the other end of the pool/is not closed to the possibility that they might be a little bi. I’d say 2s and 4s are bisexuals with a preference. That’s just me, though.
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now what, exactly, is the difference between 4 and 5?
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Well, here’s the full Kinsey scale –
0 = heterosexual
1 = predominantly heterosexual, only incidentally homosexual
2 = predominantly heterosexual, but more than incidentally homosexual
3 = bisexual
4 = predominantly homosexual, but more than incidentally heterosexual
5 = predominantly homosexual, only incidentally heterosexual
6 = homosexual-
yes — this i understand — but what about the difference between romantic vs. sexual attraction?
and about actual behavior vs. desired behavior?
past vs. present vs. future sexual encounters/relationships?to me it seems so complicated
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um i realize you posted this ages ago, but i just joined the group and saw it. i’ve always wondered this too — i’ve had more actual hetero encounters/experience, but tend to want/desire relationships with women more, and feel more strongly about those relationships, i think? i think in some ways the kinsey scale is a bit limiting, and what you…[Read more]
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NYC Autostraddlers 11 years, 10 months agohey guys I need some help looking for a cheap and decent place to stay in the NYC for Jan.I’m interning there fr the mounth and I just can’t find a good place to stay…Help!
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NYC Autostraddlers 11 years, 11 months agoUmmm… does anyone check this?
Well, in any case, I have fallen in love with this queer dance party in the East Village (at Heathers!) called Hot Rabbit (http://www.facebook.com/thehotrabbit), and this week it falls on 11/11/11 which is the perfect excuse to unleash your inner (or outer) queer, amiright?
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NYC Autostraddlers 12 years agoso who’s going to riese’s panel thing? (http://www.autostraddle.com/autostraddle-live-come-to-my-nyu-pride-week-panel-queer-my-blog-112440/)
should we pregame it and then show up and heckle the crap out of her? probably. maybe.
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