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isa posted an update in the group
Straddler-on-Straddler advice 12 years, 3 months ago
Okay. I will make this short because it is the classic “I’m-in-love-with-my-straight-best-friend” scenario. Basically, I am in love with my straight best friend. What the fuck do I do? (I am not out)…(& she has had numerous sexual encounters with girls but I am almost positive that her romantic feelings are strictly for boys).
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novastar posted an update in the group
Straddle Your Frustration 12 years, 3 months ago
I keep not getting jobs, and I have no way of knowing if it’s because I actually lack the correct qualifications for the job or because I lack a correct gender presentation. (Even though my mom makes me wear mildly feminine clothes to interviews.)
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AG posted an update in the group
Straddle Your Frustration 12 years, 3 months ago
My dad doesn’t believe that I’m gay. How could I, when I’ve never dated someone?
How do you know that you don’t like guys, dad? Huh?-
Oh, honey. I’m sorry. Best strategy: go get some pussy and report back. Or go get your yearbook, open it up and point to some girl, and be like “see her? This is the girl I want to touch *under the shirt* and just because she’s straight doesn’t mean *I* don’t want to sleep in a bed with her.”
Or be like “I bet you knew you wanted to touch boobies…[Read more]
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Rie posted an update in the group
Straddler-on-Straddler advice 12 years, 3 months ago
Straddlers: There’s a cool local event involving a lot of semifamous authors getting into performance shenanigans. I’d like to ask a girl I met while volunteering to join me, but I don’t wanna be a creeper. What’s the best way of doing this?
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what kind of contact info do you have for her?
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Only Facebook
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Well it sounds like there’s a low chance of being a creeper here… if you’re on good conversational terms just leave a post on her fb asking if she’d like to join you. If you haven’t really talked I’d message her saying something like “Hey, we haven’t talked much but you seem cool… would you like to go to this with me?”
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I’d try chat if you’re both online, otherwise a PM sounds good. I think the best way to think is what would you do/how would you react in her shoes :)
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Awww, thanks! I sent her a facebook message earlier this week, and she was very kind but had to say no cause she had a friend visiting.
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Randahl posted an update in the group
um. uh. wait. ok. wait. what was the question? ok. um. yeah. wait. what? 12 years, 3 months ago
I think this might be relevant to some people’s interests…or maybe it’s just me. Thought I’d share anyway
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Carmen SanDiego posted an update in the group
um. uh. wait. ok. wait. what was the question? ok. um. yeah. wait. what? 12 years, 3 months ago
is it bad that i laughed like a 3rd grader at the sight of this subway station in Brussels ? http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2296/2344425374_31c637fe03.jpg
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eskim00 posted an update in the group
Straddle Your Frustration 12 years, 3 months ago
There are a couple of thing frustrating me at the moment:
1. I still have to pass 3 exams but it seems that everyone in my country has already finished and is partying.
2. I asked my friends to stop using the word gay when insulting people (i know they don’t associate homosexuality with something bad), but they told me not to be so sensitive and…[Read more] -
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what do you want? Do you want to come out to her? Have a sexual encounter with her? Or try and forget about her?
I think the advice stems on what you want or what you think is even a possibility/how she or others may react.
Maybe you can use your friend status to get a bit more insight into where she’s at in terms of her sexuality? Find out whether she’s romantically attracted to women or not, because if she’s not, there’s sadly not very much you can do to change that.
Oh, honey. I think just about all of us have been there at one time or another. There’s never a really satisfying answer to this predicament. I agree with Cindy and Dizzy both. You should figure out exactly what it is you want from her. It sounds like she might be open to a fling. Would that be worth it? Some people can handle one night…[Read more]