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kd15 posted an update in the group
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I’m freaking out. I have a networking event tomorrow night with a bunch of people I’ve never met.
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Woo I survived without having a panic attack. I did primarily sit in the corner and quietly watch everyone, but I got a little more social as it went on and did end up actually talking to people.
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A lot of times these events are never bad as you think they will be. It just so happens when one is very awkward/uncomfortable or doesn’t go well, I take it superhard and it makes me want to stop trying. But usually it works out and like anything else, you get better at it the more you do it! Congrats on making it through!
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good for you for going and for making the best of it. glad you got to talk to some people. *gives you a point*
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Mavi posted an update in the group
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I’m openly/obviously gay and have been all of my life…so I should be comfortable around lesbians. But I’m not. I’m not shy around anyone else, strangers love me, I have a pretty strong social net of straight people, my family and I are very close. I just seem to repel other lesbians. What am I doing wrong?
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The possibility of romantic or sexual interest makes you nervous?
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Nope. I wish it was that simple. I’ve only really liked two lesbians, romantically/sexually. Both times I felt as comfortable with them as I do with all of my straight friends. It was easy, like we were already connected. We’re still friends, but we live in different cities.
Most of the time, when I meet other lesbians, I’m not even…[Read more]
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Personally, the higher the stakes, the harder it is for me. The more I like someone and want to impress them, the less impressive I am because I clam up! It’s a curse. So whether it’s my boss, a beautiful girl or someone who I think is much cooler/smarter/more interesting than me, I struggle. When I don’t care about someone’s opinion, I am able to…[Read more]
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I can see how that logic might come into play, but that’s not me. I’m pretty much the same person to everyone I meet. I’m weird in that I really like me, I’d totally hang out with me. I’m pretty sure other people will like me too, it’s just a matter of meeting them. Besides, at my age, I don’t place too much value on relationships that haven’t…[Read more]
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